a question.... One thing I definitely am thankful for providers for has been...

One thing I definitely am thankful for providers for has been the openness during sessins to discuss technique, improve on things, experiment a little and be shown a thing or too.

I've never been one to watch porn.....I simply cannot imagine how boring the sex life of a "happily married couple is at 50 if they have remained monogamous since being high school sweethearts....

I have a question though for a pro.....

What is it about "slapping the pussy" that drives a chick out of her mind in some cases?

I've come across a couple of ladies that after orgasming a time or three... with the lips all swollen and spread open and a wet glistening beat red clit that is throbbing..... I found that a few rapid sharp "slaps" open handed to the the area followed by sucking the clit in will send these chicks into another world it seems.

I've learned and understand the concepts of a variety of other things but I do not understand the mechanics of this....

I've always treated the clit the way my penis enjoys being paid attention to..... I know that right after coming ... if you were to slap the head of my dick I'm gonna knock you the fuck out! It would be my knee jerk reaction...

Is this more common than I was aware of? Anyone know the physiology behind how it is pleasurable?

Im very sensitive and the more I orgasm the more sensitive it becomes. I dont "get" the slapping idea and my "knee jerking reaction" would be the same in that I would "knock you the fuck out" if done to me. I dont receive the pain, I deliver it. LOL

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I've had girls slap my cock around rather roughly during BBBJ. I didn't particularly like it, but some guys evidently do. I just wanted them to stop.

I don't think I've had them ask to be slapped hard, but yes have had some extra stimulation requests afterward. Also a lot of closing legs( sometimes squeezing my head) and "need a minute".

I prefer licking to slapping. just a preference. Definitely seems more sensitive and able to continue faster than men.

I also like getting pointers from women when playing. Who else knows their body and what they like more than them.

Gotta love a woman that tells you exactly how, where, speed, etc.


ps. great co-ed discussion

I have had girls ask me to put ice cubes on the clit or inside, icy hot or heated lube, and hell one gal even had me touch a 9 volt battery to her clit the way we used to do with our tongues. but never slap.

I don't think I've had them ask to be slapped hard,

I wouldn't say that I slap it hard.... but enough to get a reaction....

but yes have had some extra stimulation requests afterward. Also a lot of closing legs( sometimes squeezing my head) and "need a minute".

I have "pushed through this" a time or two... especially if light bondage is involved.... I've found that what a lot of ladies perceive as being a place to top.... and let sensitivity die down .... can actually only last a few seconds and then their reactions become much more intense due to pleasure that over takes it and their next orgasm is a lot stronger

I prefer licking to slapping. This is usually done right after delivering an orgasm by licking....

just a preference. Definitely seems more sensitive and able to continue faster than men.

I also like getting pointers from women when playing. Who else knows their body and what they like more than them.

When you are dealing with Pros.... I would agree....

But with the typical young lady you meet..... unless she has had a lot of partners I've found their knowledge of their own body limited by the quality of their previous partners. Originally Posted by sms918

Thanks for the response

I have had girls ask me to put ice cubes on the clit Originally Posted by Von Spieler

I had a large bowl of ice water beside the bed with a softer dildo soaking in it and after getting her off orally a few times I reached for it and slid it in to the hilt and she shook like a old fashioned PinBall Table with every light, buzzer and whistle going off.... She came instantly.....

9 volt battery. ok

toys are nice, I like the idea of food involved in playing. the ice water and ice cubes I like.

Not there yet for 9 volt batteries, but I love ideas and suggestions.

Have met a few providers who like and suggest ideas I've never tried. Some I try and enjoy, some I haven't, yet.

Question? What about putting a toy in the freezer. either rubber or glass. then playing.