Women--you should read this article and the "rape joke" poem. Not a joke at all but very serious. Forward the link to your women friends. This poet needs to be read more widely. i was blown away and I never read poetry.
http://www.nytimes.com/2014/06/01/ma...l?ref=magazine
Here's the Rape joke link
http://www.theawl.com/2013/07/rape-j...ricia-lockwood