Clean and Fresh...Unreasonable Expectation?

A little preface: I've been in the hobby for quite some time (longer than many of you have been adults). I'm a relative newcomer to ASPD and now ECCIE. I saw a single provide for years until she decided the local weather was too much and moved to a warmer climate.

Perhaps she spoiled me a bit. When I arrived she was always freshly showered and smelled great; no perfume, just a fresh clean smell. She used lotion; her skin was always soft to the touch.She shaved and waxed; never a hint of stubble. She brushed her teeth; she never had dog breath. She brushed her hair; it was soft to the touch.She took care of her personal hygiene. Her place was always clean and neat, with a real bed and pillows and clean sheets. There were clean towels and wipes for cleaning up. She never had to go looking for a cover or a bottle of lube or a toy. She greeted me with a smile, could carry on a conversation, and hugged and kissed me goodbye. I never felt rushed. I know she had other clients but, she always made me feel like I was her only one.

She knew she was selling an illusion, enjoyed her profession, was very good at it, and took the extra step to make the illusion as real as possible for the hour or two we spent together. My preference is slender, petite and GFE. I've been looking for another provider with similar qualities but, haven't found her yet. Like so many things, this profession seems to be changing in ways that make it less enjoyable for the clients.

Recently I've encounted a few providers who simply don't understand the importance of basic personal hygiene and that the quality of the session matters. Are my expectations unreasonable, or did I just get very lucky with my former service provider?

IMHO. You got lucky. I'm betting those providers are far and few in between. I know if I find one like that, I'll be off the radar.

Are my expectations unreasonable, or did I just get very lucky with my former service provider? Originally Posted by sb14450

"No" to both - if you stay with the established independent ladies.

Does it hurt when you shoot yourself in the foot? just asking

Hmmm...does it hurt when you touch the side of a boiling hot pan?

When I arrived she was always freshly showered and smelled great; no perfume, just a fresh clean smell. She used lotion; her skin was always soft to the touch.She shaved and waxed; never a hint of stubble. She brushed her teeth; she never had dog breath. She brushed her hair; it was soft to the touch.She took care of her personal hygiene. Her place was always clean and neat, with a real bed and pillows and clean sheets. There were clean towels and wipes for cleaning up. She never had to go looking for a cover or a bottle of lube or a toy. She greeted me with a smile, could carry on a conversation, and hugged and kissed me goodbye. I never felt rushed. I know she had other clients but, she always made me feel like I was her only one.
Originally Posted by sb14450

Am I missing something?
There are several top quality ladies here who provide exactly this.

Keeping Jack's suggestion in mind about the danger of trying to make a list I won't. But the "A list" is pretty well known. From just a fast search I think you've seen a couple.
PM me if you would like a couple more suggestions.

sb...its too bad that you are experiencing that. I have met personally a few of the independent providers and i can speak for myself as well that, being clean and well.......... feminine in general is kind of a underlying basis for this occupation, and we all seem to follow that beyond expectations. I know myself i will not even go to the door until everything is perfect to me ......hope you stray away from the bad apples there are plenty of what you are looking for

I think you pay what you get for. Last week I met up with a provider where she post on backpage and escorts.com. She was a very nice girl but her location was a dump. I was scared to sit on the bed because i thought something might jump out at me. But with my experience the ones who post with cheaper rates tend to be the filthiest.

Everybody, read his words very carefully.

Recently I've encounted a few providers who simply don't understand the importance of basic personal hygiene and that the quality of the session matters. Are my expectations unreasonable, or did I just get very lucky with my former service provider? Originally Posted by sb14450

It sounds to me as if he's suggesting that every provider should meet those expectations, not that he hasn't found any that do.

I think he's just saying that some providers seem to take a half-assed attitude when it comes to being a provider. Or maybe i'm putting words in his mouth.

I agree whole heartedly sb!! I just had a not so clean and fresh experience with a provider that has been well reviewed a bunch of times.... Ugh!!! Will write review soon.

Well, just remember it is a two way street. I can think of many factors that can go into this. If you are going to demand perfection every time, good luck with being perfect every time.

"No" to both - if you stay with the established independent ladies. Originally Posted by jackfengshui

Jack, in my experiences since signing on to eccie, and previously aspd, and staying with those you reference by this post, the hygene has never been an issue. It also goes both ways, the ladies deserve us to be as we wish them to be.

Well after all CL doesn't stand for "Clean List" now does it.

I agree with the sentiment of the majority here...That is stick with the well reviewed indy's that frequent this site and there generally is no issue...At least I can say from my exp that it has been so. And yes so true of a two way street but I'd say that that ones a basic & expected common sense courtesy as well.

For my self and my self only, I do not schedule my self back to back appointments ever! I want the gent to be cleaned and showered, as I would expect he would want myself to be. I have OCD, so for my self, I allow time to clean up, make the bed, get new towels ect. Clean my self up.

While working for a service, I always thought it was dirty to know that one guy just left and you had 5 mins or no time at all before the next gent showed up. There just isn't enough time with back to back appointments to get your self clean!!! Let alone your room or house.

While I haven't run into any hygene issues, I have had some girls wear perfume or body spray. As pleasant as it may smell, it does rub off. Even if I jump in the shower, that scent still seems to linger and I spend the rest of the day paranoid.