Looking for someone to teach

what the hell's Avatar
I hate having to type this post. I am in need of a good teacher to teach me how to DATY.

I ask for honesty, I am not looking for an ego pump. I am looking for someone that won't mind telling the truth. Knowing what not to do is as important as knowing what to do.

Also if there are any hobbyists that suggest a provider for such a thing, don't hesitate to reply or PM. Let's be clear, I am NOT looking for a hobbyist to teach me, but if you know a provider that would be a good candidate.

This thread may be futile as I assume most providers would say they can accommodate.

I don't have Premium Access or I would have put this in the Men's Lounge. I am just as interested in other hobbyists' views if they have done this before.

Thanks in advance.
doug_dfw's Avatar
You already visited some of the best.
I hate to be the bearer of complicated news, but there is one big problem..
We don't all like it the same... :/
I think the key is to try a few things and whenever you get a reaction, moan, movement, etc, that's what that particular lady likes. It's very similar with guys and blowjobs.. You just have to be focused on your partners reactions.
Xx
FunInDFW's Avatar
Might try a provider that is very sensitive and can orgasm easily.
What Alyssa says is exactly right. Not all women like it the same. I have learned it hard way. I have had girls instantly get orgasm and had some, no matter how much I try, and different variations I do, they don't.

I did watch a lot of porn and experimented, mostly lesbian, since women know how to do it better:-), before getting a feel. Now usually I get the girl off. But remember, the girl might not be into it, so you get her off one time, doesn't mean you will succeed every time.
Luke Skywalker's Avatar
I hate having to type this post. I am in need of a good teacher to teach me how to DATY.

I ask for honesty, I am not looking for an ego pump. I am looking for someone that won't mind telling the truth. Knowing what not to do is as important as knowing what to do.

Also if there are any hobbyists that suggest a provider for such a thing, don't hesitate to reply or PM. Let's be clear, I am NOT looking for a hobbyist to teach me, but if you know a provider that would be a good candidate.

This thread may be futile as I assume most providers would say they can accommodate.

I don't have Premium Access or I would have put this in the Men's Lounge. I am just as interested in other hobbyists' views if they have done this before.

Thanks in advance. Originally Posted by what the hell
If I had a vagina I would be willing to help you... But I'm afraid you're SOL.
A wonderful provider gave me this advice year's ago ,"no, not like that. Like an ice cream cone." And she told me that you should always be willing to call an audible on the line of scrimmage and that when a woman's "yes, there, right there" , she means it. Best of luck.
Ravasher's Avatar
I have heard you draw the alaphabet with your tongue. It helps you focus on alternating your technique which women are supposed to enjoy.