booking providers during rate changes

In search of an opinion or different perspective on booking providers during rate changes:
(Her name does not matter, so don't ask. And If you recognize this, please do not out her here - that is not the point of this post.)

On Monday I contacted a provider asking to see her for HH or BNG that day. She was young and new to the area. I read all her reviews, checked out her rates, and looked at all her pics. I wanted to see her pretty badly! (still do!) She replied. "I cant do anything until i hear back from your references. its 100 and my HH is 250". So I sent her my refs.

Tuesday morning she replied that she had heard back from my refs and that she would love to see me. I replied back asking when I could come over for BNG and didn't get a reply until noon, asking "how about 130?" I asked if I could head early because I had some time constraints. I knew her area so I headed over early. While heading over she texted me saying that I can head over whenever but she cant see me until 130. She gave me her number and address and said "Also my BNG is 150, I just updated my showcase to reflect that." :O

I didn't know what to d,. Had I known it was 150 earlier on, I would have looked for a larger opening in my schedule and just dropped the extra hundo to get a half hour or do the full hour.I didnt think that was fair, given the timing. I understand that prices rise with demand, and she is a premium hottie, so I understand the raise. Also, I would understand if she quoted 150 to contacts from there on out, but having discussed 100 before the raise I would think it only fair to give me the rate discussed. She is young and may still be trying to figure out her price points and how best to manage her business; I can't say I had everything figured out at her age so I cant be too hard on her. There may be things I may not have considered, we all see life play out differently. I don't hold anything against her and would still like to see her, but I would like to hear other perspectives on this.

(Her name does not matter, so don't ask. And If you recognize this, please do not out her here - that is not the point of this post.)

Who cares, just move on

I contacted a provider through p411 and set up appointment. Her Eccie rate was the same. The day of the appointment I checked p411 again and texted to confirm time and $. She texted back that the p411 rate was wrong ...real rate was $ more. I asked why she didn't change her p411 rate and she said she just didn't have enough time.

Told her no thank you and simply moved on.

Better to find out before you waste an hour of your life getting ready and driving there.

+1 ^

anytime someone is quoted a donation is supposed to be that donation on the agreed time. no exceptions. sorry that happen to you

In search of an opinion or different perspective on booking providers during rate changes:
(Her name does not matter, so don't ask. And If you recognize this, please do not out her here - that is not the point of this post.)

On Monday I contacted a provider asking to see her for HH or BNG that day. She was young and new to the area. I read all her reviews, checked out her rates, and looked at all her pics. I wanted to see her pretty badly! (still do!) She replied. "I cant do anything until i hear back from your references. its 100 and my HH is 250". So I sent her my refs.

Tuesday morning she replied that she had heard back from my refs and that she would love to see me. I replied back asking when I could come over for BNG and didn't get a reply until noon, asking "how about 130?" I asked if I could head early because I had some time constraints. I knew her area so I headed over early. While heading over she texted me saying that I can head over whenever but she cant see me until 130. She gave me her number and address and said "Also my BNG is 150, I just updated my showcase to reflect that." :O

I didn't know what to d,. Had I known it was 150 earlier on, I would have looked for a larger opening in my schedule and just dropped the extra hundo to get a half hour or do the full hour.I didnt think that was fair, given the timing. I understand that prices rise with demand, and she is a premium hottie, so I understand the raise. Also, I would understand if she quoted 150 to contacts from there on out, but having discussed 100 before the raise I would think it only fair to give me the rate discussed. She is young and may still be trying to figure out her price points and how best to manage her business; I can't say I had everything figured out at her age so I cant be too hard on her. There may be things I may not have considered, we all see life play out differently. I don't hold anything against her and would still like to see her, but I would like to hear other perspectives on this.

(Her name does not matter, so don't ask. And If you recognize this, please do not out her here - that is not the point of this post.) Originally Posted by Leo dc

You're making a lot of excuses for a girl who treated you like a sucker. She quoted you a rate. You booked an appointment. Then as you're about to head to the session she jacks up the rate by 50%. And you wonder what you should have done? You should have told her to fuck off.

Forget that bitch, spend your money on fried chicken instead.

Being an overly analytical guy, I'm a tiny bit sympathetic because these girls talk to a lot of guys over sometimes long periods of time... When they change rates it can get messy as to where the cutoff point is. However, if you are just waiting on references to check I believe that is different.

Btw, her hot friend was with her and took the appointment instead.... It was amazing!!!
I'm an optimist and give people chances to live and learn. Some day I'd like to see her and don't want to burn that bridge.

Being an overly analytical guy, I'm a tiny bit sympathetic because these girls talk to a lot of guys over sometimes long periods of time... When they change rates it can get messy as to where the cutoff point is. However, if you are just waiting on references to check I believe that is different.

Btw, her hot friend was with her and took the appointment instead.... It was amazing!!!
I'm an optimist and give people chances to live and learn. Some day I'd like to see her and don't want to burn that bridge. Originally Posted by Leo dc

Since you reviewed her friend, and that friend mentions the other provider in her ad, I think you just outed her. Good for you. What she pulled on you was bullshit.

As stated - say "ok, then never mind" and hang up.
Glad it worked out in the end.

She should had still honored the arranged rate with you! I wouldn't out her if you still want to take that plunge for her "all of a sudden " new rate. But on her end she confirmed price and day and time, she should had honored that!

You should move on and never look back. She sounds like a straight up hustler with the customer service skills of a hungry grizzly bear.

What annoys me about this situation is that it's not complicated at all. The first price she quoted you is the rate you pay. Unless she told you she was hiking up her rate the next day (which I gather she didn't) or you contacted her again a week plus later (which you didn't).

My advice is to never give her another thought. Don't read her reviews, don't open her ads and don't reply to her posts because as Josh stated, she treated you like a sucker so she should dead too you.

We're not just selling pussy here people, we're also selling kindness

You're making a lot of excuses for a girl who treated you like a sucker. She quoted you a rate. You booked an appointment. Then as you're about to head to the session she jacks up the rate by 50%. And you wonder what you should have done? You should have told her to fuck off. Originally Posted by BFCjosh

I like you more and more every day.

It was only BNG that changed... If I had the time I would have done FS. I'd prefer that anyway.

What would you do if the sign at the corner station displayed $3.00/gal and when you parked and swiped your card the gas pump read $3.50/gal?

It's amazing what men will do for pussy. Just think how ridiculous it would be if we couldn't just pay cash for it.

It was only BNG that changed... If I had the time I would have done FS. I'd prefer that anyway. Originally Posted by Leo dc

LOL
Keep up the good fight...I'm sure you'll change these guys minds and they'll let you poke her eventually!

Dude, you asked for opinions and different perspectives, don't do that if you don't wanna hear 'em!

I was thinking about that this morning when I decided to change my menu and donations (that I plan to post tomorrow.) I know people have grown accustomed to my donations, however I'm no longer offering incalls in a hotel room so my cost of living has risen and I have more responsibilities to take on with maintaining a private incall. I WILL honor my normal rates as recently advertised though until I publicly advertise with my new menu

Its not good buisness changing the donation after it has already been agreed on upon booking though but there are always other providers who could accomadate you due to your preferences, keep your head up hun I'm sure you will have better luck next time