Whose fault is it?

Alright, CT2005 wanted a democracy and a vote on whether things are his fault when YMMV adversely. So here is a poll.

The question on the floor is when you (a lady or a gent) don't have a good session, whose fault is it? Originally Posted by pjorourke

I guess if this thread were a democracy, all of you would vote that anything negative that occurs in a session is my fault. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Don't know why you did this. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

better watch it PJ...pretty soon he's going to start calling you and your ilk a "de facto mod" again Originally Posted by atlcomedy

No need for a "de facto mod" when we can wish for Pete Cochran, Linc Hayes, Adam Greer and bringing up the rear the way only she can, Julie Barnes. (I do so love the women's movement especially from behind!)
Originally Posted by PhantomofTheOpera

1. If "YMMV" means that the lady deliberately provides reduced level of services, less than commonly understood or implied by her ads/reviews, for some clients based on factors commonly recognized as valid distinctions (hygiene, excessively rude manner, extreme obesity, etc.) -- his fault.
2. If "YMMV" means that the lady deliberately provides reduced level of services, less than commonly understood or implied by her ads/reviews, for some clients based on other factors (mild or moderate obesity, lack of social skills, age, etc.) -- her fault.
3. If "YMMV" means that the lady is noticeably unenthusiastic, due to the client not being polite, respectful, friendly -- his fault.
4. If "YMMV" means that the lady is noticeably unenthusiastic despite a polite, respectful, friendly demeanor by the client, evaluate as above for reduced level of services.
5. If "YMMV" means that she doesn't do X the way he prefers (and he doesn't provide polite feedback to that effect, allowing her to correct) -- neither's fault or possibly his fault.
6. If "YMMV" means that she doesn't do X the way he prefers (despite polite feedback to that effect) -- possibly her fault, depending on the nature of the difference.
7. If "YMMV" means that it's unscripted and, although the basics commonly understood to be available are all there, it's a little bit different each time -- why the hell are we talking about fault? That's a good thing.
8. If "YMMV" means that they just don't hit it off (personality differences) -- neither's fault.
9. If "YMMV" means that they hit it off better than average (client is not just clean, polite, respectful, friendly, but he and she have compatible personalities) -- why the hell are we talking about fault? That's a good thing.
10. If "YMMV" means that she just didn't do X the way he wants and/or they just don't hit it off and it happens a lot -- regardless of fault, he should consider whether he may have unreasonable expectations.

Don't know why you did this. I already admitted it's my fault according to the posts in the other thread. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Not EVERYONE in that thread said it is always the hobbyist's fault. I said it is a complex interplay. :-) Originally Posted by Laurentius

No, you are misreading the poll. Item 3 says it is Chuckles fault when YOU have a bad date. Originally Posted by pjorourke

better watch it PJ...pretty soon he's going to start calling you and your ilk a "de facto mod" again Originally Posted by atlcomedy