The thing that really chaps my ass about this, is the fact that they want to sue Phelps. What does that change? What does that rectify? Absolutely Nothing!
I get offended all the time. People have been extremely cruel and mean to me. They say and do things that cut like a knife. Do I sue them over this personal emotional injury? No. Why? Because it won't make things go back to the way they were, and it won't make anything any better. I might have more money in my pocket, but the main issue (being injured emotionally) is not healed.
Today while listening to NPR regarding this whole ordeal, all that kept running through my mind, besides the fact that Phelps is a waste of space, was the old saying "Turn the Other Cheek (not ass cheek lol)."
Now I am not saying don't make sure he isn't present at their funerals and such where he causes a ruckus, but I am saying this..."Turn the Other Cheek." Yes, it hurts the families greatly! Yes, it is not fair to the dead and their families trying to lay that person to rest.
Life isn't fair, never has been and never will be. In my opinion, I feel they need to be the better party here, and say "You know what Phelps? We are going to do everything in our power to not let you ruin this funeral, and also we aren't going to allow you to reek havoc in our hearts and minds either. We simply dismiss you as a decent human being, and we will live our lives trying to be better than that."
Revenge is never the answer....At least that is how I see Life through my own eyes.