Question for you Gents?????

OK Here it is. If you guys new that the provider that you are about to see had a pimp would you still spend your hard earned money on her just for her to turn around and give it to her PIMP? What do you guys think?
I don't care. That's her business.
No, hope you aren't thinking of getting one..LOL Joke alert.
ElumEno's Avatar
Let me ask you something...

Should a client have the right to tell you what to do with your money once you earned it?
Lets assume that the girl in question is old enough to make her own decisions in life... then what right does anyone have to dictate what she does with the money she earns.
If she wants to spend it on herself, her children or give it all to her SO (pimp) then that is her right to do so.

But would I personally help support a stereotypical pimp who beats and abuses a girl into giving them their money... HELL NO!
arealwingdinger's Avatar
Its my understanding that "its hard out there for a pimp"
A pimp is not a client. I would think there is a difference between a client and a pimp don't you think. I never had a client telling me how I should spend my money. I don't get what you are trying to say babe. Thats not what I asked babe, look at the ???? I asked..lol
Let me ask you something...

Should a client have the right to tell you what to do with your money once you earned it?
Lets assume that the girl in question is old enough to make her own decisions in life... then what right does anyone have to dictate what she does with the money she earns.
If she wants to spend it on herself, her children or give it all to her SO (pimp) then that is her right to do so.

But would I personally help support a stereotypical pimp who beats and abuses a girl into giving them their money... HELL NO! Originally Posted by ElumEno
Dkayz's Avatar
  • Dkayz
  • 07-13-2014, 09:45 PM
No. I just don't trust pimps. Plus the only "managed" girls I have ever been with are usually sub-par service compared to indy girls. Overall turns into a good general rule just to not see them.
JS42's Avatar
  • JS42
  • 07-13-2014, 09:47 PM
Nope.
lol.... Im sure its hard to hold your hand out. That's a lot of work for them. lol

Its my understanding that "its hard out there for a pimp" Originally Posted by arealwingdinger
malwoody's Avatar
No. I just don't trust pimps. Plus the only "managed" girls I have ever been with are usually sub-par service compared to indy girls. Overall turns into a good general rule just to not see them. Originally Posted by Dkayz

How do you know for sure if a girl is "managed" or not?? Obviously if you see or hear management but what if you don't? How can you ever be sure a girl is completely indy?? I would venture to say that there are girls that give a very authentic impression that they are completely indy when they have some form of management connection. Especially in what can be a dangerous activity if the wrong guy gets past screening...or does not get(yikes)screened at all..

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GiveMeLibertyOrGiveMeHead's Avatar
The only reasons I would actually know if a provider had a pimp or not would be if he/she actually showed up during a session, the provider told me she had a pimp or I read it in a review.

If the pimp actually shows up during a session I would never repeat. If the provider tells me she has a pimp I will take it with a grain of salt and if she is any good I will repeat. If I read it in a review It would depend on the context. If the pimp showed up and either robbed or harassed the client I would not see the provider. If it was brought up because there were some black guys hanging out at the hotel and the reviewer assumed they had to be her pimp, (That's actually pretty fucking racist...just saying) I would still see her if the menu was right and her pictures are accurate. If the client heard from a friend or another provider I would take it as gossip and still see the provider.

It is not for me to judge and there are legitimate reasons why a provider would feel she needs a pimp. As long as it does not interfere with the time I am paying for then it is none of my business.

I am in no way saying that I do not care if a provider is in a bad situation or that it is OK for a pimp to beat their women. I am just saying that we are all adults and responsible for our own decisions. No one has the right to tell anyone else what to do or not do with their time, money and life.
NO I am not looking for a pimp....
No, hope you aren't thinking of getting one..LOL Joke alert. Originally Posted by i'va biggen
Whispers's Avatar
I spend my hard earned money on me and am selective in the girls I see.


Hookers, whores, pimps, managers..... They usually go hand in hand.....

If I don't know and the service level is there why should I care what you do with your money?

Pimps are not a lot different than deadbeat boyfriends or pretty much any man that will let a woman turn tricks ....

Keep your business to yourself and very few will care....
If I somehow knew for sure a girl has a pimp; NO. Where I have seen girls I found out had pimps during or after seeing them, I've never repeated.
On one of the other numerous threads we've had about pimping, a hobbyist stated that he was certain he had never been with a provider who was pimped. He was just absolutely certain of it.

Then I looked at his reviews and saw that one of them was of a provider who I know with certainty has a pimp. I just wanted to laugh. I almost replied "Is that your final answer??", but his list of reviews was pretty short, so I decided it was best not to make a reply.

The moral of the story is: if you can't tell she is pimped, then why worry? If she gives every indication that she is enjoying what she does, then its obviously her choice to have a pimp and there is no reason to believe that she is in any way exploited, forced, or taken advantage of. While it is a choice that I myself will never understand, I won't judge another provider's decisions.