How do I tell her ?

Ive been seeing a gal, we are exclusive for several months now.

Over the course of these months, she's added 30-40lbs.
She carry's it well because she uses clothes to hide the fat gain.

she does very little exercise, while I workout 6 days a week.

She rewards herself(stressful job) with food and I was indulging along with her,
She likes to get fast food and desserts, I've taken part in this recently adding to my waistline also.

Since june now I am eating in a caloric deficit and working with weights/walking, I am losing fat.


since June 15 I've been dieting, doing what it takes to shed the extra 20lbs I put,
she will not go to the gym with me(we don't live together, but had been talking about it before I started dieting

How do i nudge her to lose some fat with me?

Ive been seeing a gal, we are exclusive for several months now.

Over the course of these months, she's added 30-40lbs.
She carry's it well because she uses clothes to hide the fat gain.

she does very little exercise, while I workout 6 days a week.

She rewards herself(stressful job) with food and I was indulging along with her,
She likes to get fast food and desserts, I've taken part in this recently adding to my waistline also.

Since june now I am eating in a caloric deficit and working with weights/walking, I am losing fat.


since June 15 I've been dieting, doing what it takes to shed the extra 20lbs I put,
she will not go to the gym with me(we don't live together, but had been talking about it before I started dieting

How do i nudge her to lose some fat with me? Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker

Do her a gigantic favor and dump her now, save her the agony of being with you, you narcissistic doushe bag.

Do her a gigantic favor and dump her now, save her the agony of being with you, you narcissistic doushe bag. Originally Posted by dirty dog

huh?
whats with the hate?
you got some real issues, Im thinking its rabies.
even dirty poodles need shots! doesnt anyone wub you enough to get you shots?

Tell her she's going to end up taking 25 units of Humalog AC/HS for the rest of her life if she doesn't stop porking out.

huh?
whats with the hate?
you got some real issues, Im thinking its rabies.
even dirty poodles need shots! doesnt anyone wub you enough to get you shots? Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker

Its not hate its called honesty.

Well imo u have two ways (1) the cold hard truth! Only use of she's not a overly sensitive lady or (2) the soft approach! If she is a sensitive woman.

(1) umm babe don't get me wrong.. U looking pretty darn good in those jeans lol! But u know I don't like over weight women! So umm yeah what's up with that plan we set TOGETHER? We can't be sexy together looking all sloppy and stuff!

(2) babe I'm really concern about our weight we both been gaining lately. U do look healthy and quite tasty I might add (wink)but it's not healthy to be overweight... and even tho we are still dating.. If we ever got to marriage I don't want you to have to stress over ur weight (wedding dress) or worse... I MIGHT loose you by overweight? I want you and I to go out being healthy and living life without complications that may hinder that.. I know ur job is stressful which exercising will help with that as well.. . So what do you say?

Bonus round option- (you) just be like babe..... What we eating tonight? (her) umm I don't know (you) I know what you like... (her) what's that!?..... Now you my friend just pull down her little panties and start tasting that donut hole! Ctfu! 😂😂😂👊👏👌😜😌😽

Tell her she's going to end up taking 25 units of Humalog AC/HS for the rest of her life if she doesn't stop porking out. Originally Posted by super_delfin00

That's how I handle it, I give her facts about to avoid health issues.
http://www.iflscience.com/health-and...ur-risk-cancer

but she's in her mid-20s and thiniks shes gonna be hot/healthy no matter what she does.

I"m trying to a be good role model for her, but at the same time, Im not her parent, and as a couple, arent we supposed to be a team? like us vs the world ?
so it'd be nice if she wasnt always tempting me with fast food when I am trying to shed some weight,,,,,,

Post her contact info, someone here will tell her the truth if you won't.

That's how I handle it, I give her facts about to avoid health issues.
http://www.iflscience.com/health-and...ur-risk-cancer

but she's in her mid-20s and thiniks shes gonna be hot/healthy no matter what she does.

I"m trying to a be good role model for her, but at the same time, Im not her parent, and as a couple, arent we supposed to be a team? like us vs the world ?
so it'd be nice if she wasnt always tempting me with fast food when I am trying to shed some weight,,,,,, Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker

I will pay BIG money if you let me watch this all go down. I will even hide as long as I can see and hear everything you say to her as well as her reaction. OMG this is going to be Awwwe--ahhh---some!!

Please let me be a fly on the wall for this event...

Roger Rabbit: "P-p-please, Eddie!"

I totally see this ending well for you LMAO.

...... (and a Mexican coke lol)

Show her pics of some hot fit providers, and ask which one she recommends.

Get her a gift certificate to Weight watchers.......then run for your life

or look at it in a positive was...........VVVVVVVVVVVVV

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I love curvy women, why dont you have her contact me, I have some ideas on some exercises that would interest her ;-)

Years ago when dating my bride we discussed the importance of good appearance. She announced that "looks" were not important. I suggested: "Then date the elephant man." Twenty-one years later she is still a babe AND fit.

Post a bunch of these all over her place....

Women say they want honesty, but that rarely seems to end well in my experience.

I had the same situation several years ago and I went the "Honest" route and told her straight out that I did not like overweight women and she needed to loose some weight. I was extremely fit and worked out every day for anywhere from half an hour to two hours. I asked her to start working out with me and the truth did in fact set me free because she broke up with me.

Flash forward a few months and she called me up because she wanted to come pick up some stuff she left at my house. When she came over she looked amazing because she lost all the weight, (just to spite me) and was showing it off. We ended up hooking up and dated for a year after. It ended because of me not wanting to get married, but the whole weight thing was never an issue again. In a sense "Honesty" worked enough to motivate her, but pissed her off enough to break up with me.

Maybe if I would have sugar coated it a little bit it would have went a little smoother. If you have been together for several months you should have a sense of what she can handle and what pisses her off. You do need to tell her though because if you are not attracted to her she will know something is wrong and maybe start sniffing around for reasons. If you are still seeing providers while you are "exclusive" with her, the last thing you want is for her to be suspicious for any reason.

If you have any hope of the relationship working out, just tell her. If the tables were turned I bet she would have no problem telling you that you are getting too fat.