Good Hobby...Bad Hobby

I have been in this hobby since Dec. 2013. I read something on a review where someone said this is a marathon, not a sprint. How true is that. Also, I can't figure out why it is such a sin to be honest. If I get "Stood up" twice by 2 providers, don't get mad at me for stating my opinion. Look, a happy hobbyist is a returning hobbyist. If you are sitting around your room, pick up the phone, send a PM and make things right, it goes a long way in my book. My first 5 months, I was a happy hobbyist, these last 2 months, I am not a happy hobbyist. To much BS, nonsense, etc that I don't want in this hobby. For that reason, I am backing out of this. I am beginning to feel it's not for me, IDK, maybe one of you providers can explain why all these reviews say, "Set up was easy." I find that hard to believe since it hasn't been for me. My appointments just don't happen. My money is as green as others. I have been told by several providers I am one of the best looking men they see as a client. I know I am probably the most respectful guys out here as well. 21 years in the Army has taught me to treat others as I want to be treated, and I truly believe in that. It sucks when I get a PM saying "when did I no show you" "You must have said something or did something for me to not show up", no I made a phone call and had a appointment set. "Can't make it", "Cars is broken down. I am on the side of the highway. I can go on but I won't. I Just needed to vent a little, this has been so disappointing recently. TTYL, And just because my join date is a few days ago, I know more out here than many could ever imagine. Peace to everyone.

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you are no longer fresh meat
that's the way it goes

How much research do you do before you contact a lady?
How many of the providers who have given you the run around have been well reviewed ladies?
How many of the women you have contacted required screening information?
Are you a member of P411?
I would ask if you usually contact ladies via ECCIE, but as you noted, your join date is only a few days ago, so obviously that is not the case.

Out of curiosity, can you give us an idea of how your initial contact with a lady goes? Do you call her, email her, or text her? What, if any questions do you ask in your initial contact with her? When you contact her, are you generally looking to set up a same day appointment, or do you book your fun a day or two in advance?

I ask these questions because it may be that you are saying or doing something that is off putting and causing you to experience a high rate of NCNS. I am just spitballing some ideas that may explain why you seem to have such difficulty getting an appointment to go through, and looking for possible suggestions that might improve your experience. That is, aside from at least one possible obvious suggestion that I might make LOL

How much research do you do before you contact a lady?
How many of the providers who have given you the run around have been well reviewed ladies?
How many of the women you have contacted required screening information?
Are you a member of P411?
I would ask if you usually contact ladies via ECCIE, but as you noted, your join date is only a few days ago, so obviously that is not the case.

Out of curiosity, can you give us an idea of how your initial contact with a lady goes? Do you call her, email her, or text her? What, if any questions do you ask in your initial contact with her? When you contact her, are you generally looking to set up a same day appointment, or do you book your fun a day or two in advance?

I ask these questions because it may be that you are saying or doing something that is off putting and causing you to experience a high rate of NCNS. I am just spitballing some ideas that may explain why you seem to have such difficulty getting an appointment to go through, and looking for possible suggestions that might improve your experience. That is, aside from at least one possible obvious suggestion that I might make LOL Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

Thanks for the reply Sins of the Flesh. When I started, it was all from BP, I really didn't know how to use ECCIE. I then found ECCIE so helpful to find the women that perform the services I want most, and that will be easy to figure out, look at my AV. All the reviews are pretty positive. I think the problem is I work 10-7pm so I usually want to book an appointment for the next morning, or a day in advance. I do feel that is the main problem, but I feel its their responsibility to make it happen. If you feel that is something you cannot accommodate, don't schedule it. Kansas city is busy at 8am in the morning.
I have communicated on ECCIE through PM. For many months, so some know me, and my questions are limited on the phone since I know everything I need to know, or what I think I need to know, before my call.
Two of the most recent are "Well Reviewed". They both have done screening. And its hard to find a good provider at 8-9AM, that is why I call the day prior. IDK My other ID was guested recently.

It really helps if you use this board and also contribute more than a post about how hard it is to schedule.

Thanks for the reply Sins of the Flesh. When I started, it was all from BP, I really didn't know how to use ECCIE. I then found ECCIE so helpful to find the women that perform the services I want most, and that will be easy to figure out, look at my AV. All the reviews are pretty positive. I think the problem is I work 10-7pm so I usually want to book an appointment for the next morning, or a day in advance. I do feel that is the main problem, but I feel its their responsibility to make it happen. If you feel that is something you cannot accommodate, don't schedule it. Kansas city is busy at 8am in the morning.
I have communicated on ECCIE through PM. For many months, so some know me, and my questions are limited on the phone since I know everything I need to know, or what I think I need to know, before my call.
Two of the most recent are "Well Reviewed". They both have done screening. And its hard to find a good provider at 8-9AM, that is why I call the day prior. IDK My other ID was guested recently. Originally Posted by MrOral69NPT

Hmmm, my join date is 7/17/2014 with Premium Access, I'll let you try and figure that out.

Recent "guested" accounts, no reviews, low post count and recent join date don't help your cause on here at all. You might as well not even try to use ECCIE to book with any hooks on here.

I suggest you call the women in the top 25 in the city, all of them will take good care of you. They are all professional, want you to come back and want you to leave happy. That is why they are in the top 25. Rarely do they make mistakes.
If you are looking for new providers, you will encounter problems and drama. Just start researching them and their reviews will speak for themselves.
They are consistent.

I suggest you call the women in the top 25 in the city, all of them will take good care of you. They are all professional, want you to come back and want you to leave happy. That is why they are in the top 25. Rarely do they make mistakes.
If you are looking for new providers, you will encounter problems and drama. Just start researching them and their reviews will speak for themselves.
They are consistent. Originally Posted by Topgun007

If you list your top 25, probably seen 8. I have references from these, I know. Others in the Top 25 are those I am having problems with. You'd be surprised. However, since I was so active in the KC area, maybe my expectations are too high, I hold the ladies to the standards I live by, and this is why its disappointing and frustrating.

If you list your top 25, probably seen 8. I have references from these, I know. Others in the Top 25 are those I am having problems with. You'd be surprised. However, since I was so active in the KC area, maybe my expectations are too high, I hold the ladies to the standards I live by, and this is why its disappointing and frustrating. Originally Posted by MrOral69NPT

...if you're so "active" and have "references"... And you still got stood up.

Soooo...tell me what did you say when contacting pretend provider?
I'm telling ya sometimes its how you talk on the phone, puts a gal on edge.

But what do I know I'm not on any lists that I know of, lol.

Some should keep downloading porn ...

I suggest you call the women in the top 25 in the city, all of them will take good care of you. They are all professional, want you to come back and want you to leave happy. That is why they are in the top 25. Rarely do they make mistakes.
If you are looking for new providers, you will encounter problems and drama. Just start researching them and their reviews will speak for themselves.
They are consistent. Originally Posted by Topgun007

Maybe I'm the clueless one, but what is the top 25?

You are in it

Leilani, you can best answer that question. I tried to get a appointment back in January maybe,February and couldn't. I can pm my phone number if needed. But back then I was new to the hobby. These issues were before my account was guested. Leilani, I have always wanted to call you back, jfyi. And my top 25 is what I see everyday on BP.

You are in it Originally Posted by Topgun007

Leilani, you can best answer that question. I tried to get an appointment back in January maybe,February and couldn't. I can pm my phone number if needed. But back then I was new to the hobby. These issues were before my account was guested. Leilani, I have always wanted to call you back, jfyi. And my top 25 is what I see everyday on BP. Originally Posted by MrOral69NPT

Send me a PM if you would like.