Erection Help Suggestions

Tonguenchick's Avatar
Ladies & Gents,
There was a recent great post from a gentlemen in private section of men's area!
He asked how best to graduate from just bbbj to penetration when with some of these fine ladies! Has history of: Type 2 diabetes under control. In good shape (few extra lbs) early 50's non-smoker or drinker or drugs. Erections are just not adequate for penetration. :-(
Not much improvement with Cialis or Viagra.

I made a few suggestions but I think the subject might be a public item of interest
to many and suggestions from ladies would be most welcomed!
I assume 90% of guys will at some point (if live long enough) have this issue!
Thank you!
TNC
I find that for gents in his natural circumstances find the next step to best take place after he has spent time with the same lady over a few dates. Chemical reactions in the brain (chemistry) can trigger bodily functions as well. Do you know if the gent opts for GFE multi-hour arrangements or does he typically fall into quickie sessions - being that just the BJ is on his menu?
Tonguenchick's Avatar
Eva,
I checked my hobby friend's reviews and yes seems he likes to go for the 30minute sessions with bbbj & daty as favorites. I agree with your advice on having several longer sessions with same lady! However who could pass up your special BJ with warm greeting! LOL! I love your showcase pictures! :-/)
Thank you for your input on subject!
TNC
Your friend is not alone in that boat, there are others with similar issues.

Has he talked to his urologist about this? Or whatever doctor prescribed the meds he's tried. There are things besides pills to use. If nothing else, has he tried a cock ring while he's "enhanced?"

There are shots that are supposed to help. Any urologist can check him out and prescribe if necessary.

The options aren't that many, but there ARE some that he can try.

Of course the last ditch effort would be an implant. I hope he finds something else that works for him first.
May indeed be medical....but even so, Eva makes a great point. Comfort level and time can make a big difference, even if he has had several short sessions with same lady so he is alrdy "comfortable" with her, a longer time span to talk, relax, play..may indeed do the trick.

Also have a friend that does well on the shots....
Eva,
I checked my hobby friend's reviews and yes seems he likes to go for the 30minute sessions with bbbj & daty as favorites. I agree with your advice on having several longer sessions with same lady! However who could pass up your special BJ with warm greeting! LOL! I love your showcase pictures! :-/)
Thank you for your input on subject!
TNC
Originally Posted by Tonguenchick
Thanks hun
34E Whitney Weston's Avatar
Check with your Dr and see if a triple mix serum injection is a option.
Dr Weston highly recommends it. lol
Amanda A'mor's Avatar
Some guys don't get a erection but still climax. The feeling is there just no Erection.

Some use a girls ponytail holder and wrap it around really tight. The cock ring is.good it also helps with prolonging climax most of the guys that have an erection problem will do best just getting a bj. If you try to hold out on climaxing you will loose your erection and never get it back or off. Just my 2 cents.
Ms. Athena's Avatar
Showing a man that there is sooo much pleasure beyond a hard cock and a cum is what makes my pussy wet....Butt yes I agree with the others, A slower longer non rushed appt will help him, as well as cock rings {real ones} to keep his cock harder longer. Prostate stimuli is also a way to help. He does need to check with his MD as many medical conditions may lead to ED and can be easily fixed. And tell your friend he is not alone as many have issues keeping their cocks hard once the condom goes on, thus why some many CIMs~~
Tonguenchick's Avatar
Ladies thank you all for great input and advice!

This was my advice:

Sometimes lack of use is the the main issue! I had a hobby friend who found a SB from a local strip club who cured his issues just by frequent sex! Wife found out and wanted him back after she found out her lack of use was causing him to look elsewhere! I saw the same SB a few times so he and she shared details with me and he went from not capable of penetration to very capable in just few weeks. He was in great shape as bicycle nut at 50! We meet once at FR and he had stripper in back mount him BB but even though scared him bad of STDs potential he kept JR at attention! Came out to tell me but not to tell his SB who worked there! LOL
Try following:
Lavetra (sometimes cannot climax with it)
If Lavetra not work try all the others! Some have headache side effects etc.
Ask DR if need a higher dose?
Prostrate Pills (just good for you and tubes & of course prostrate)
Have Testosterone level tested (Level often does go up with more sex!)
No alcohol if planning sex (and of course no drugs) Either can lead to pregnancy! LOL
Exercise on regular basis and eat proper diabetic diet
Find a Understanding willing lady to work with issues (Provider or SO) tell them what you want!
It is fun to play the field but a sexy skilled regular lady can likely be a cure!
Two ladies! LOL Graduate to that!
Self experimentation
Try a larger condom or better more sensitive non-latex one and bring some with you!
Add porn and or toys when with lady
Too much porn will often be a problem (stop watching it and see)
Add mirror
Massage lady so she is relaxed also and willing to help you feel good also.
Find a position that keeps it erect longest (sometimes best visual like K9 or CG)
Cowgirl puts less work on you and less risk of blood moving to your other muscles!
Ladies love it also as they can make the erection feel best for them while in control!
If lady wants a review I might go for several positions for review purposes for her benefit but do not try for multiple positions if one is working well if having any ED issues! Just a reposition can kill the erection.
Implant might be good last resort in my opinion.
TNC

Have an erection lasting longer than 4 hrs... call me!
Sorry, im no help. Boner pills jus make me irritable n give me a headache. :/
Go to your urologist and inquire about Testopil! Google it!