"bad customers get bad customer service"...?

I got a no on one of my latest reviews from pervs**s2* . But why did I get a no? According to the review I had a bad attitude and I didnt complete a ff. When pervs**s2* showed up to his appointment (120bng 15-20 minutes) the very first thing he asked me was if I was a clock watcher. I told him no but that I did have a schedule to stick to. He told me that the reason he asks is because he takes longer to come. I told him bngs normally last 15-20 minutes and he asks me if he can have more time and I said maybe 25. Pretty much just trying to get as close to the hh as he can without having to pay for it. We started getting down to business and he asked if it was ok to be rough and I told him it was fine as long as he doesnt mark me. I start doing my thing and at one point he held my head down while I was trying to come up. I pushed my head up and told him that when I need to breathe he needs to let me. We keep going and he continues to hold my head down while im trying to breathe. At another point I gagged on his dick (not a hot gag, a really nasty one. I almost threw up) and he said yeah thats what I like to hear. Needless to say the session didnt last very long after that. After a few more minutes he held my head down again even when I made an obvious effort to push myself away. I made him get off and leave for continuously doing something I asked him not to do (and yeah my temper may have flared, guess theres where the bad attitude comes in). He asked for some of his money back because I didnt give him the 25 minutes I "promised" him. I told him no and he went on his way after talking a lil shit right before he left. Counted my donation and he only left me 118. Do I really deserve a no for not allowing a cheap young asshole to tear up my body? Come on, how many of you other gentlemen wanna hear my new bedroom voice? Its called the "I let an asshole destroy my throat for $118" voice. Cute, right? So I got a no. I guess if thats what it takes to keep from getting torn up then so be it.
Honey just keep him on your never see again list. I have never gone for a B&G as I like to take my time. Be careful babe.
Guest010115-3's Avatar
The occasional no, whether deserved or not, u shouldn't worry about. However, u also should not create a thread since u don't owe anyone an explanation. Just keep doing ur thing and hopefully, ur good side will outshine your No's. Even the best providers have sessions that did not go as intended, they r the best coz of consistency.
strongbad's Avatar
118? So he left u three one dollar bills? Never heard of that one before.
yardbird74's Avatar
Go with what Tucson and Chess said. Dipshits are out there and it's going to happen. Even the best providers out there with a couple hundred "yes" reviews have a "no" or two from some guy who is just an asshole. Don't let it get you down.
bbkid's Avatar
  • bbkid
  • 07-29-2014, 08:37 AM
Just shrug if off and let it go. You've told your side. Nuff said, baby.
Dorian Gray's Avatar
Well we can definitely rule out a Negro cause she was paid in cash & not in food stamps or unclaimed lottery tickets
Fast Gunn's Avatar
Very sorry to hear about your difficulties, Honey.

. . . You need to sharpen your radar and sense when these cheap pigs try to destroy you with their perversity and stop them at the front door.


pyramider's Avatar
Another good example of why the ladies should not offer bngs and hhs.
Why even get into this hobby if you're broke wtf.

I know this is a he said she said but he was obviously trying to get a hhr at a bng price.
Don't worry about it. It is one No after 14 Yes. Actually this kind of reviews can be used by you girls to make unofficial never to see list. If the provider he book next time checks his last review and found out that he is one lonely No after 14 Yes, then she can think twice seeing him. Moreover recently he gave more No than Yes in his reviews. He is hard to please or not being honest. Either way I would not take chances.
I am so curious about who it was that was so despicable. I won't speculate on his race but from what I have heard from others I can guess.
dearhunter's Avatar
mexican?
If you're going to do quickies, then yes, be a clock watcher. You have to. Once they get to the hour range, now you're making enough money to stop worrying so much about an extra 5-10 minutes or so, but if he's going to be cheap with his money, be equally cheap with your time. Give him exactly his time, but no more.... if he already knows he needs more time, why did he book a short session?! That's disrespectful to you.

Don't ever ever tell a first time client that it is okay to be rough. No, it isn't. You don't know him, you don't know his definition of rough, you don't know if he will listen to your gentle guidance. If he wants someone to be a little rough with, he needs to invest in seeing her a few times to make sure they click and have good communication and comfort levels. Your answer when they ask if they can be rough is always "that's only something I entertain with return clients with whom I am very comfortable."

Get wasp spray or bear mace. Keep it everywhere. It shoots 15-20 feet, has a good spread, and hurts a LOT. Bear mace you can get at sporting goods stores. Wasp spray you can get pretty much anywhere. Both are preferable to pepper spray, in my opinion. If the guy has ever been in the military or police force, he might be prepared to handle pepper spray and still hurt you. No one is ready for bear mace.

Hope it gets better for you, hun.
No after speaking to several providers over the years they have an NBA policy for that reason. In or out of the hobby I treat a woman in the way I was raised.