Stood Up . . . Twice

Two different providers, one of whom I'd seen a few times before and who is very, very well reviewed. Both agreed to meetings and then never responded to my queries about time and place. What's up with that?

Two different providers, one of whom I'd seen a few times before and who is very, very well reviewed. Both agreed to meetings and then never responded to my queries about time and place. What's up with that? Originally Posted by Woland

Who knows? Sorry that happened. Just happened to me. Twice. With the same guy via p411. Keeps contacting me for an outcall and then when I ask where I am going. Nothing. Very annoying. When things like that happen to me, I prefer to think that they died in a fiery car crash rather than the more obvious reason of them having made other arrangements for the day. Yes, I am that shallow.

Only two?

Might have been last-minute jitters since you have no reviews. Might have figured that they already made this month's rent. Many variables in the game.

Happens to everyone. Plenty out there waiting to hear from you. Think of it as two holes you didn't make par on. It's a great game and unlike golf... there's no penalty for extra strokes!

What a strange thing!! Providers are always so responsive-especially to someone without any reviews. Hey I thinks guys that have been on here for years have that happen to them all the time-It's part of what happens in the Hobby! Do not give up!!

Sorry that happened to you.
It seems that lately there NCNS abound. It happens on both sides. There are some ladies that are known for NCNS, same as some guys are known it. It's not fair to anyone involved.

Two different providers, one of whom I'd seen a few times before and who is very, very well reviewed. Both agreed to meetings and then never responded to my queries about time and place. What's up with that? Originally Posted by Woland

This is totally worthless unless you have balls big enough to name names. That's the only way to raise proper attention to the problem.

This is totally worthless unless you have balls big enough to name names. That's the only way to raise proper attention to the problem. Originally Posted by onei

Have to agree. The sad thing is that there will probably be a chorus of guys who will chime in after that post that she did the same thing to them...

Just happened to me. Twice. With the same guy via p411. Keeps contacting me for an outcall and then when I ask where I am going. Nothing. Very annoying. Originally Posted by chelseabean

Let Gina at P411 know... share his redacted P411 id with the ladies in the ladies area.

No reason for these guys and gals to change their behavior if there are no consequences.

ztonk
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Two different providers, one of whom I'd seen a few times before... Originally Posted by Woland

Do you guys ever read the entire sentence?

Not everyone writes reviews.

That happens to me alot asking were I am located and for an appt and then when I answer and ask for a time crickets, but I dont really consider that a NCNS because we never inquired a time or place so the whole appt wasnt set up I just see it as annoying and waste of time, but not much you can do about it. And I just figure something came up or they found a cheaper or in there eyes better provider and well thats it.

Sucks but what can you do...

I have had 1 NCNS in 3 years as a provider,
I however have NEVER been a NCNS

No reason for these guys and gals to change their behavior if there are no consequences. Originally Posted by ztonk

There are no consequences right now for a woman to NCNS. If you write a NCNS review, it doesn't connect to her profile and is simply moved to co-ed just to be forgotten.

Yall can bitch and moan about a guy NCNS twice but the truth is that ladies get away with it every fucking day w/o consequence unless the rules change.

Do you guys ever read the entire sentence?

Not everyone writes reviews. Originally Posted by junkweed

If you don't write reviews then don't come on here bitching about NCNS. PERIOD!

I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope you can find a provider who takes the time to see you.

If you don't write reviews then don't come on here bitching about NCNS. PERIOD! Originally Posted by onei

Aw, come on man. It's the magic age of the inter-google-verse....everyone gets to bitch about anything they want. Whether or not you take it seriously is up to you.