My approach is similar to Still Looking, but I'm a tad more flexible. My preference is not to pay until afterwards. I will only pay prior to the fun starting IF she asks for it up front. Lately, paying after the party is over has been the norm for me-- mainly b/c I've been seeing my SB (arrangement and no donation required), repeat w/ girls I've seen before, and girls who don't ask up front. I've only had one time where I "forgot" to pay her. I had to run back inside to get the donation and give it to her. I don't think she would have even noticed as we were both horny as hell and jumped each other the moment we could
Several observations. To me, girls who INSIST on getting the donation up front are more likely to also be clock-watchers, have other rules, and tend to be less service oriented. Yes, I know not all girls who want the $$$ upfront are this way, but it does increase the odds of a less than satisfying session. Second, and this is mainly from a guy's perspective, paying after playing probably reduces the odds of being caught in an LE sting to zero. LE wants to get the transaction out of the way first, and I seriously doubt they would let one of their female officers go all the way for an hour or so just to make a bust. Yes, I know they can, but I just can't see an LE dept that would have such a policy. Now I know their male officers would probably go all the way to nail a provider. I know a double standard.