A couple of things to address

I rarely if ever post anything outside of pictures and ads and I don't read to much of the threads so a lot of things were not brought to my attention until recently so I have a couple of things that I want to address here.




1. I've seen comments that were posted on a review written on me and I wanted to give my side of the story from the review written by Sherm.

Within the first 3 minutes of us meeting he made a comment about my size asking me if I ever eat anything. I thought to myself "well thats kind of rude but maybe he's not meaning it in a disrespectful way" so I let it go and we proceed. We got passed that comment and later moved to our activities and right in the middle of what seemed like a great time he makes another comment about my weight saying "You are gonna starve in this business you don't look like you eat any fast food." So at that point I instantly got irritated, annoyed and offended. Here we are in the middle of everything and have someone say something like that clearly lets me know that he was not having a great time and was not pleased to say the least. Furthermore, I don't advertise as anything that I am not. I make it very clear that I am a very small and petite woman. My pictures, height and weight are a very accurate representation of me. I felt his comments were rude and offensive and I feel I had every right to be irritated and react the way I did. If I made several comments about a gentleman in that manner and made those comments to him as how they were directed at me I wonder how that would make me look or come off to him. Originally I was not going to say anything but I felt like I had to address this issue and get my side of the story out. Anyone that I've had the pleasure of meeting can attest to me always having a great attitude, putting my all into my time with someone and making sure they leave with a smile and are happy that they came to see me.



2. My screening process

I see a lot of comments posted about gentleman complaining about my screening process and how I go about screening. Some of the things that are being said are simply not true. I have never asked anyone for their place of employment but I do ask for Occupation or Job Description. I don't care where a gentleman works but I would like to know what you do. I will never meet with anyone who can't pass my screening or someone who can't provide what I ask for. That's just asking for trouble and I will never make any exceptions when screening or jeopardize my safety for anyone.

I've also seen comments about it taking me days to get back to clients about meeting or to let them know if they have passed my screening or not. I try to get back to everyone in a prompt and timely manner but 99% of the time the reason why it takes more than enough time to get back to someone is for these reasons.

A) I'm either waiting on a reference check from another provider concerning the client in question.

B) A client did not let the provider that he was using as a reference know that he would be using her as a reference so when I reach out to the provider concerning the client she then tells me to have him contact her before she would be willing to give him a reference and/or any information about him. (Which is understandable)

C) A client is using references from over 6 months ago and I do not accept references from that long ago.


Bottom line is that I screen everyone no matter who you are, how many post you have or how many reviews you have wrote. It has been proven too many times that gentleman who write reviews and have a board presence can get caught up in stings too and in the process have their accounts compromised and also can be a good client turned bad client and I want to minimize the risk of running into any of that so I screen. I screen for my safety and comfort level. I am a firm believer that a meeting would go a lot better if a gentleman does his research on the provider BEFORE they meet and also if a provider screens a gentleman and feels comfortable and safe with the guy.


I just wanted to clear up a couple things that were being said about me. I put my all into what I do each and everyday and it sucks to see bad and unfair things being said about me on here lately and I wanted to give my side of things.

I rarely if ever post anything outside of pictures . Originally Posted by Lariyah_Cash

Lariyah, which reviews are you referring? Most of us are far too lazy to go thru all your reviews.

I totally get your first statement. It has been my experience that we are all human and sometimes chemistry (or lack there of) effects the experience with a provider. You can have an insanely good time where the provider forgets the actual element of time or just your average fun time. There are always 2 sides to every story and I am sure most hobbyist weigh that in their decision on choosing a provider. As for your screening process, it seems and sounds more challenging than personally I want to deal with but I am sure the time with you would be worth it. However, keeping tabs on the providers I have seen who most of the time change their numbers is a little much. Just an opinion of one hobbyist here. I do understand your need to be safe.

I did not find lariya's screening to be difficult or challenging. It actually makes sense it's just a reference check. Unlike others who want to know detailed information about your

She is one of the most professional providers I dealt with......... Puls she is very hot lol

Lariyah, I've been very impressed with your reviews, and I hope to meet you one day soon! The more I get into this hobby, the more I realize how important caution and safety are. I had a scare recently (no big deal, I just got freaked out and bailed) that could have been avoided in the first place by thorough screening first. I've come to realize that I'm only going to see providers with very good, reliable reviews, so I know going in that I will be comfortable. Lariyah is just asking for the same level of comfort. I totally get that.

As far as saying she is too skinny...?! I've only seen her pics, but she is gorgeous! Just shows you can't please everyone.

Play safe, everyone.

Lariyah
I applaud you for speaking up on the board and giving your side...as we all know there are.
I have not seen you so I know nothing about your screening process...the only thing Ive heard is it is very rigid (and I understand its your right). You seem like a lovely little lady....BUT
I do however hear a lot of it is inconsistent.....is that true?

If so can you clarify

wow. Just wow. I do everything I can to avoid drama on this board. Everything I said was intended to be a compliment. And, the you're gonna starve in this business comment was sarcasm after she gave me one of the best bbbj's ever. The fast food comment was about her living arrangements and the fact that she basically has to live on no home cooked meals. My intent, with a body as nice as hers, she can't be eating any fast food.

The fact that Lariyah just got pissy about something she wanted to be offended by is her problem. If I want that kind if attitude and defensiveness I can get that from non hobby girls.

I like the fact that Lariyah screens well. But I don't need the drama, I can find that all on my own. I now change my recommendation to a firm NFW!

I did not find lariya's screening to be difficult or challenging. It actually makes sense it's just a reference check. Unlike others who want to know detailed information about your
She is one of the most professional providers I dealt with......... Puls she is very hot lol Originally Posted by bluegrana

Screening is screening, and LC's methods are posted. If a referral does not come through timely, that's not her issue.
Seriously, considering that LE uses professionally written scripts to try infiltrate hobby dating, what part of a gal screening = safety for the entire community (including us guys), do folks questioning screening not understand?

This appears to be a case where there was absolutely no connection when the client walked into the door, for whatever the reason. I have posted that i would appreciate communication from a provider if she was totally not going to give me what I wanted or she feels that this may not be a great session. I am not sure how providers feel about this, I would like to hear from them. I don't think I would have that problem BCD, but I know there are situations when a provider has to perform a service, and for me, I would respect her tons, if there is honesty and letting me know that it's not going to work.
Have a Great Day Everyone.
And for the record, When I saw Lariyah a few months ago, she was my first review, my references where limited to those I knew would know me, after maybe 30 minutes we were fine. So, knowing the facts, there are some providers that if you want to see them, you need to plan and pursue. If you think you can call Lariyah and see her for the first time in 30 minutes or less, it may not happen, Just Saying.

I have not seen you and probably won't. But, if I were too see a fs provider I would rather see someone with body like yours. I will always pass on the BP fast food fatties that call themselves curvy, voluptuous, etc. I have been fooled enough times that I avoid them completely. So you may be too skinny...for this market. Take it as a complement and move on. There are a lot of other ladies here that will never hear those words.

I'd have to agree that I found the screening process very straightforward, and fast. I had a great time with her and hope to see her again very soon. Def a ATF.

Sorry to hear you had issues, Sherm. I found Lariyah to be a straight-up girl, with no issues or hidden agendas. I knew what I was coming into, and she was fun BCD. And, through her screening process, she felt comfortable to see me.

Keep doing what you're doing, Lariyah.

Everything was fine until she took my comments the wrong way. Great body, pretty face, seemed nice. Just saying if I want a woman to be mad at me for something I said while she doesn't tell me what is bothering her, I can get that at home.

Again, I was perfectly fine with her screening.

Well you have been on the site for a while. As Sins has said before, providers, as well as us, All have a certain level of Bat-Shit Craziness about us. Until we really know the lady, and probably never, ever, will, conversations that relate to "outside" the bedroom activities should be limited. I can see, some talk about our lives, minimal personal info, etc, but we all want discretion, we all want a good time and We really don't know each other, so remember the Golden Rule, when it comes to respect and talk to each other, treat and communicate to them as you want them to treat you. If a provider tells me during an awesome BBBJ, "damn Tom, your ball sack taste like last nights bacon grease pan", I probably would take that the wrong way, as Lariyah took your comments the wrong way. Hopefully we all can learn from our experiences in this life, everyday is a new experience to me. I have learned some hard lessons as well. Forgive, Forget, and move on!