What would you do?

  • Sonya
  • 08-19-2014, 01:59 PM
So... Say you have a two hour that turns into an all nighter. Including the wife. He contacts you for a private session. Does girl code apply? Or is it every Man for himself?
phillyintexas's Avatar
Sonya,

Most of us are on ECCIE for privacy and security. If a hobbyist comes to you as a provider in privacy IMHO it should remain private. If these were personal friends outside the hobby it would be much tougher to answer.
  • Sonya
  • 08-19-2014, 02:40 PM
This isn't a current situation of mine. I thought we discussed things here?
  • Sonya
  • 08-19-2014, 02:43 PM
Maybe I worded that poorly. I see how you could misunderstand.
  • Sonya
  • 08-19-2014, 03:17 PM
Oh I give up, I'm bored and all the topics have been done to death. Nevermind.
Sonya,

Most of us are on ECCIE for privacy and security. If a hobbyist comes to you as a provider in privacy IMHO it should remain private. If these were personal friends outside the hobby it would be much tougher to answer. Originally Posted by phillyintexas
WTF?

Oh I give up, I'm bored and all the topics have been done to death. Nevermind. Originally Posted by Sonya
You're right they have, I like your topic. During couples sessions I tend to pay more attention to the female, not because I like boys better, but to minimize problems (for him) later on with the wifey. Unless they are lifestyle swingers, those things could get a bit tricky. That way she does not feel like we are digging each other too much, and she feels special enough to not feel some type of way.

Is that what you were asking?
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Prime Time's Avatar
Girl code does not apply assuming that there's some serious ass eating taking place.

And of course, large amounts of fried chicken should always be on stand by.
  • Sonya
  • 08-19-2014, 04:40 PM
Well yes. Thanks for getting the topic. Threesomes can be tricky grounds given the fact we session with married men often. Is this taboo? Are their rules, codes we follow. Whats your take?
Russ38's Avatar
Just show'em them titties Sonya....that'll resolve any issue....
  • Sonya
  • 08-19-2014, 04:51 PM
[QUOTE=Luxury Daphne;1055702222]WTF?



You're right they have, I like your topic. During couples sessions I tend to pay more attention to the female, not because I like boys better, but to minimize problems (for him) later on with the wifey. Unless they are lifestyle swingers, those things could get a bit tricky. That way she does not feel like we are digging each other too much, and she feels special enough to not feel some

Yeah I agree. Some women don't know their jealous untill its mid session.
Oh I give up, I'm bored and all the topics have been done to death. Nevermind. Originally Posted by Sonya
Don't you worry...when I get back I have something to eliminate your boredom....
I've only ever done one couples session, most likely bc I am fbsm. I spoke to the gent on the phone first, when booking, and he explained he would bring his gf along, and that she was bi as well.

We started the session by her & I massaging him. I decided to let her take the lead so as not to over step any boundaries. However, we both ended up using our best penmanship skills on him at the same time. He, of course, loved it and she didn't seem in the least upset or jealous. Then, she got on the table and he & I worked on her. This turned into him pretty much watching me work on her, etc.

By they end, they climbed up on the table together and I pretty much just stepped back and let them do their thing.

They were both very nice and seemed extremely relaxed and ok with everything the whole session.

As they were leaving, she told me that he completely surprised her with the session, didn't even tell her where he was taking her, kind of thing, but she seemed really into it.

So, I guess it just comes down to each couple. I think it's a pretty safe bet to let the lady take the lead if it's your first time with the couple, and see how things go and what their style is.
  • Sonya
  • 08-19-2014, 05:12 PM
Don't you worry...when I get back I have something to eliminate your boredom.... Originally Posted by SNL9933
Giggle giggle.
pyramider's Avatar
Its probably best to discuss who the attention should be centered on prior to undressing.