Sonya,
Most of us are on ECCIE for privacy and security. If a hobbyist comes to you as a provider in privacy IMHO it should remain private. If these were personal friends outside the hobby it would be much tougher to answer.
Originally Posted by phillyintexas
WTF?
Oh I give up, I'm bored and all the topics have been done to death. Nevermind.
Originally Posted by Sonya
You're right they have, I like your topic. During couples sessions I tend to pay more attention to the female, not because I like boys better, but to minimize problems (for him) later on with the wifey. Unless they are lifestyle swingers, those things could get a bit tricky. That way she does not feel like we are digging each other too much, and she feels special enough to not feel some type of way.
Is that what you were asking?
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