Dilemma

If a client has a dress request and you know you look better in something else, or even out right bad in the requested outfit, what should a provider do? Wear the outfit, or politely decline?

Interesting question babe!!
I would personally say YES to wear the outfit

I once had a guy bring me "granny panties" to wear during the session...they were disgusting,but thats what he wanted!

i always find something that is up his alley but is more suitable to my taste lol!

That is a question that only you have the right to determine. You're not a slave to your profession. Everyone has boundaries.

kate i had a few time when i asked a provider to wear something and she didnt! it not a big deal to me. but in my line of work i have to wear many things i dont want to but i do it...this a fantasy so it very nice when a provider plays along.

Kate how could you look bad in Anything?

IMHO, if a client makes a specific request that isn't kosher or you're not comfortable with, don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable.

Of course you should never DO anything that makes you uncomfortable!!!
But if it's just that you feel silly in the outfit, I think you should wear it anyway. It may just be that outfit that makes the whole date his most memorable experience ever!!!

I get outfit request from time to time. If they adhere to what I'm comfortable with in determining what my dress code is for a service, I'll do it.

I was once asked to show up in jeans and a tshirt. I don't even own tshirts that would be acceptable to wear anywhere but moving and biking. That's just not my style. There are some venues where his fantasy may be inappropriate. I always gauge the request based off of the place where the service is requested.

I had one dude ask me to wear all white in the middle of fucking October. I don't buy all white dresses-- I'm fair skinned. And, it's not like I can go pick one up from the store. I showed up in white panties instead. He complained, but he was also a shitty client anyway.

I agree with Lil Red.... I am going to assume (correct me if I'm wrong) that he has at least seen a pic of you in said requested outfit. If that is the case then he already thinks you look hot in it!

Now if you just can't stand the thought of wearing it then choose something similar in style that you do like. Either way I'm sure you're gonna knock his socks off!

'He who pays the piper calls the tune.'

If the outfit is within your boundaries, and you're a smart provider, you'll wear it.

Economics 101 - find out what the customer wants and sell it to them. This ain't rocket science.

I'd wear it if it wasn't something that would garner inappropriate attention in public. If it would, then maybe just wear it BCD? But I do agree that if there's a request you can fill without doing harm or making yourself extremely uncomfortable, then you should. If wearing it would make you so uncomfortable that the session might not go so well...then maybe explain that to him?

I get outfit request from time to time. If they adhere to what I'm comfortable with in determining what my dress code is for a service, I'll do it.

I was once asked to show up in jeans and a tshirt. I don't even own tshirts that would be acceptable to wear anywhere but moving and biking. That's just not my style. There are some venues where his fantasy may be inappropriate. I always gauge the request based off of the place where the service is requested.

I had one dude ask me to wear all white in the middle of fucking October. I don't buy all white dresses-- I'm fair skinned. And, it's not like I can go pick one up from the store. I showed up in white panties instead. He complained, but he was also a shitty client anyway. Originally Posted by Jacquie

What does the middle of October have to do with wearing all white? Just curious.

I really don't see what difference it makes what a lady wears BCD. I want them naked anyway!!!

I agree with Stavin wear what he asks for in private unless it's something to freaky for you like a Rabbit suit or Nun's outfit or something like that.

quote--I agree with Stavin wear what he asks for in private unless it's something to freaky for you like a Rabbit suit or Nun's outfit or something like that.

THAT MIGHT BE KINDA COOL & KINKY!!! lol