Wrong: Hi, Hey, Wassup/What's up?, Available?, Good morning, hru? (how are you),
Right/Perfect: Hey pretty lady, saw your ad on ECCIE (or other); I'm (name)/handle), 52yo wm, from xxxx, interested in hr of your time. I'm usually available to meet at your place at __(early morning/lunch/or after ?). I'm ddf, generous, and like to have a good time. When is good for you? I'm a supervisor at ABC Co. and have seen (xTiffanyx) as a reference. Thanks and hope to hear back from you. My # is xxxxxxxx
Once agreed on a time, via text or call, then alert that you are on the way to confirm and I will give directions, then you call again when close and will give you specifics.
If you are not doing this or close to it, you probably aren't getting your foot in my door much less anything else, and probably not any other Eccie ladies either...
You want respect, you have to earn it. You give respect, you will receive generous southern hospitality (at least from me). Thank you! and You're Welcome!