Late Night/Last Minute Callers...what's the deal?
This thread is not intended to start friction, but I just have to ask.
Lately, I've been receiving a ton of late night requests for sessions. Some come via email as late as 11:30pm, asking if I'm still up and available that night! Others call at any crazy hour of night and leave messages asking to meet right then. What is that? I turn my phone off after 10pm, so it's not a matter of disturbing me. I just thought it was odd to wake up and check messages only to find that 2-3 people called or emailed asking me to meet so late. I've recently removed my number from ads for that reason.
I guess I'm just wondering...what makes people do that? Are there ladies who take calls 24/7? Its never been the norm with me, but evidently, its ok for someone, or they wouldn't try in the first place. I wouldn't have even thought that a gent would be able to get out that late. And if he was (say he's single or alone for the night), why would you think that a provider would automatically be open to meeting a stranger at all hours? A SW...maybe. An escort....uh uh. How would I screen you in minutes? Who's going to make reference calls that late (as if the caller had them)?
Could it be the profession? Do gents assume that because we do this for a living that we're "open 24 hrs"? Just wondering...maybe you all know something I don't?
There are a few providers who go into the wee hours of the night with calls. They aren't as classy as you, but when you get that itch late at night, someone's there to scratch it.
yes there are a few providers tat do work 24/7...alot of agencies do too
I get alot of pms/emails/& calls at odd hours of early morning & late night...I think most men are "spontaneous" creatures,so when they get horny they only think with the little head!
I hate the ones who text me like I know who they are ...I do not like to text anyone unless I already have a
repoire with them
Dallas- now you tell me! lol
I've been taking a lot of calls in the early evening lately for about the last two months. I naturally prefer earlier appointments, but I never hobby after ten unless it's been planned well in advanced.
The thing with spontaneous callers is that many of the dawgs are married, or have SO's and they have to play when they get the chance. Most people look at the world from a 9A-5P view point, and I realize as providers a set dinner date with fun til 10-11p is not out of the norm, but think about it from a 3 deminsonal perspective it is a 24/7 world out here. You have guys that say work a 3p-11:30p shift who is just getting off at 11:30p maybe the wife is out of town with the kids, and he did not know ahead of time he would have this opportunity. You have guys that work graveyard shifts 11p-6:30a, their lunch hour may be 2:30-3:00 in the morning. A provider thinks nothing of a quick pop lunch from 10:30a-1:00p, but its a different story when lunch time is at 2:00a.
I would think you have alot of backpage providers that get calls, and provide service during your typical odd hours, that is why as Lakefront Guy pointed out in a previous thread most backpage girls do not get up til 11:00a or so, because the early morning hours are probably some of their busiest.
I understand what you are saying Nina. I mean sometimes they have a bit too much too drink and the lil head DOES take over even more then.
What I don't get is ... Do these guys think we sit around all pretty all day or night ready for them to call us like that is all we have to do? I know before any of my encounters I want to be at my best which means I need to fluff and buff all those 2001 body parts of mine. So I guess I am saying I can't just say yeah baby come on over.
I like the 6 P's of life - Previous Planning Prevents Piss Poor Performance. LOL
I guess I'm just wondering...what makes people do that?
Originally Posted by Nina Rae
My penis gets all liquored up and does stoopid shit.
(Damn! Natale beat me to the punch.)
My penis gets all liquored up and does stoopid shit.
(Damn! Natale beat me to the punch.)
Originally Posted by stavinChain
TEE HEE ... what is that about great minds darlin
Ive only cold called a provider at ten or no later than 12a.m. When I specically got ncns or cancelled on abruptly usually by ladies I prescreened with and booked for earlier times it worth a gander. It wouldnt be a regular practice though as I prefer to plan. There is a late night market, but the success rate is low Im sure. In neighboring states coupled with p411 local oks the ladies took the chance most times. Some references dont respond fast enough, and the window of oppurtunity on both sides is challenged.
I think that the providers who tend to be more text friendly are convient. If it was too late I guess most would consider a text less intrusive than a late call.
Natalie: spot on babe! I do need to primp and buff before a date. And I know my gents like it that way.
Slickback: You hit the nail on the head....BP girls may be ok with that. However, that's not a place you could find me. I don't advertise there. I've gotten calls from people who come into town on business mostly, and they call at 11:00 and leave a message with a room number and their first name and say "how soon can you get here?" I don't respond because the "bat phone" is off at 10. I see the message at 7 am when I am getting ready for work and laugh.
quote--I like the 6 P's of life - Previous Planning Prevents Piss Poor Performance. LOL
ditto!!!{I knew you were a HOT chick...but now i see you are a wise one as well..lol}
Last minute sessions never seem to work out for me. I have tried on two occassions that I can remember. Never late at night though. Both times it was when a session was cancelled by the lady and I felt "in need."
I do know that my schedule is very volatile, I do not know my set schedule exactly and at times I have had to push back sessions or even push them up. The ladies typically work with me but I know I have frustrated more than just a few ladies with my last minute of changing times, so for that I apologize, but please understand I do not know when I will be completely available, it is usually not my choice to be working instead of hobbying!!
That being said I always prefer a pre-planned session over last minute, I like the flirting emails back and forth and the build up of anticipation to the session. But also with regular ladies I see I would hope a last minute session could be available if she is available too.
Dallas I love txting my lady friends!!!
well Outdoors babe..you can text me anytime!
JMSTRYKER-- I do not mind texting..if I know who you are or if we have met before
idea is spot on. often men wants a particular woman and do not mind booking days or weeks in advance. other time a man needs a woman right then and either must satisfy that need at once. if no one is avail out comes the hand and away goes the $. its sort of like some morning you would just love a nice cappucino and some mornings you just HAVE to have a pot of strong coffee. what you will drink depends on your needs of that morning