When does my time with a provider actually start?

I've been somewhat confused lately as to when my time with a provider actually begins. Let's say I have a 1pm appointment and I show up at the hotel 10 minutes early and call from the parking lot. The provider answers, "says give me five minutes then come on up." So, giving her five minutes and another two or three to get to the room and I'm, maybe, two minutes early. Now for those who know me, I am the clock watcher. I respect the time I am allowed and never go over even if it means stopping the fun short of another pop that is close at hand. That's just how I am. Anyway, I have asked how much time do I have left and will be told, "well you called early and I said come on up" so I wind up losing almost 10 minutes in my session. Plus, count the time to clean up and say my goodbyes and I have lost between 15 and 20 minutes of good time. If I had that time I would probably be able to get that second one off. Am I off in wondering this, or is this just the way it always is and 1hr actually means more like 45 minutes? Just curious.

Thats a damn shame on the two call incall hassle. I cant stand the ole wait five minutes situations. They should expect you to come ten minutes early to start on time.

My experience tells me most top notch providers will provide two pops for me in an hour session. There are times when I finish early and have to bolt out to a meeting or something.

But as long as it is my choice to leave early and not be thrown out, then all is fine with me.

I have had ladies watch the clock and they assume my time starts when I arrive, and then they go and get dressed in something sexy, instead of already being dressed, which takes a good 15 minutes. Then in the same session cut the time short because they are in hurry to somewhere else. Meaning my time is cut very short!!! I just do not repeat

What I find most amazing, is that these same ladies are the ones that insist on the envelope up front, which I cannot stand doing just for this purpose, but I comlpy usually. Also, they contact me back and wonder why I do not repeat AMAZING!! When I am ripped off I do not go back to the same place to get ripped off again!!!

You ladies make a very decent wage at $$ to $$$ per hour, not many lawyers can charge that amount and I do not know any lawyers on food stamps or hurting for cash. So, if charging that amount, give the service, just that simple. But alas, some ladies just do not get it.

I've always assumed that my time begins as the door opens. If I am running late, I ask how much time she might have on the back end to make up. Most of the girls I have ever seen manage their business so as not to have appointments running into each other.... so a little late has never been a problem. If there's not any time on the back end.... shame on me for being late!

It's ridiculous to expect a girl to be ready to begin a session early.... just because you've shown up early! If she says "No Problem... Cum on up".... fine!! But we can't expect it!

We have all seen lists of qualities which separate the best from the rest..... Promtness is one !!

As far as comparing escorts to lawyers.... the difference is billable hours. The fucking continues long after you walk back out of the lawyer's office door!!

Giz

I don't really pay attention to the time on a clock. I'm not going to stop anyone at sixty minutes if I'm having fun too. That doesn't mean I'm giving away freebies to everyone who walks through the door, but if we're having fun playing and talking I benefit from that too. Yes, money is definitely important, otherwise I wouldn't submit to this lifestyle, but I tell everyone it's nice to get some strange too. You take care of me, and I take very good care of you. Don't put in the work, you don't get as good of a session as the next guy. Sex happens between two people, so there has to be that give and take from the equation, otherwise the experience is lackluster at best. I'm not saying that I intentionally try to screw dudes out of their buck (though maybe I do that, teeehhheehehehe), but sometimes things don't go as well as either party would have hoped.

I have heard that one about lawyers before Giz, but always nice to hear again.

I agree with you on the promptness as well. And I agree my time starts when I walk in the door if the lady is ready. I cannot stand the lady opening the door and she is wearing jeans and t-shirt and asks for the envelope and then goes to get ready. One lady took 20 minutes while I laid on the bed for her to get dressed in the bathroom. Sorry, I feel my time starts once she is ready and I would like my 20 minutes, please, hell I paid for it. That's my point.

Rarely am I ever late because I believe the clock should start at the time I set appointment - not early - not late and if my fault tardy clock is still ticking.

I was introduced to the whole sex scene at a very young age, family of mine along with associates ran back ally whore joints, peep shows. strip clubs etc. in the quarter. I probably got my first BJ at age 13 by one of the girls working in one of the clubs.

At the age 0f 17-18, I had cousins running a under ground porn studio on the westbank mostly doing private movies, and worked as a fill in for gang bang scenes and such. I also had a uncle that ran a resort in Ft. Lauderdale, and I worked as a cabana boy for a couple of summers, and was actually propositioned and paid several times by these twisted older millionaires, to have sex with their wife while they watched. The point is I have been around the sex industry for along time, and have seen just about everything.

If I see a girl that has a certain appeal, then I will call her, and It is not so much for the sex, which I am stll fully able to perform without viagra, but to meet her. I have paid for hour sessions heard the girl open her mouth and walk out the door without looking back. One thing that gets me is these white chicks that have to act all ghetto, to me just be who you are. I have paid for half hour sessions, had sex with the provider, and afterwards started talking, and wound up going eat dinner and having drinks, because the conversation was so interesting. I have alot of insight into the industry and have ran accross a few that were interested in business advice once we began talking.

I guess the point is I do not focus on the time, I am just interested in the individual for some reason.

I cannot stand the lady opening the door and she is wearing jeans and t-shirt and asks for the envelope and then goes to get ready. One lady took 20 minutes while I laid on the bed for her to get dressed in the bathroom. Sorry, I feel my time starts once she is ready and I would like my 20 minutes, please, hell I paid for it. That's my point..... Originally Posted by Outdoorsman

Agreed.... Totally!!

Sorry 'bout the lawyer comment.... I couldn't resist!

Giz

+1 giz

I attempt to do as little, or inconspicous, clock watching as I can. I try to be aware of the time frame for instances such as: I may have another appointment and it may take me x amount of time to freshen up and arrive at said apt.... I may have family obligations at a specific time... I may need to leave to make it to my RL job in time...etc. If I only have 30 or so mintues inbetween journeys, well, I may not be able to socialize as much as I'd like too. Otherwise, as long as I have some x-tra time, I don't mind chatting a little - as long as I don't feel like I'm being taken avantage of. So far, I have met very few gentlemen whom had openly taken this advantage, but for the most part, not many.

If the games begin at 10pm, and u show up at 10:05, then the game should end at 11:05pm, unless you make arrangements accordingly, or having a delightful conversation in which both parties are emersed in, etc. If you show up at 10pm - a lady takes 20 min to get ready - clock should start @ 10:20 and so forth.

I have however had a situation in which a client was an half hour late, unfortunately he wanted a full hour by the time we met up and I was unable to accomodate this because of prior arrangments. So he took the half hour instead, wasn't too happy about I assume, but by then, their was nothing I could do. Plans were already made, etc. I think the key is communication. Had I not already made other plans, I'd have gladly extended the time.

If it's only an hour I don't start time until we are actually kissing. I usually go 10-15 over the hour just because I feel it's too short. If it's a longer date, time starts when they are sitting down with their first cocktail.

Many times I have gone out to dinner off the clock if I have nothing else to do that evening, and I have no problem with doing that. I make sure the guy is taken care of and if he wants to take me out for dinner when I can afford to invest the time, I appreciate it.

Most times the dinners are scheduled and paid for, but if it's a night when someone only books 90 min. and wants to take me out afterwards...why not.

I don't worry about the "timing" of a session...if you pay for an hour,you get the full our{and so forth}...
Most of my guys stay the whole lengt of your "session".......I say "pop till you drop".......lol

I try never to book back to back sessions..I like to allow sufficent time to rejuvenate myself...therefore if you are early,thats cool,cmon in!!!

I'm not too sure how other providers work but from personal experience, and hour appointment usually turns into an hour and a half or so. I'm in agreement with Dallas, I don't book back to back sessions because you don't know what your "friend" prefers.

Some men like to talk before and after, some like to take showers afterwards, and some like to get down to business and leave. Either way, counting minutes in my opinion is tacky and takes away from the WHOLE experience that you, as a hobbyist, are expecting.

Don't get me wrong, I am aware that there are some men out there that would take advantage and try to push the envelope as far as time is concerned, but in my experience, an unrushed session is usually rewarded with repeat visits and generous tips.

I don't mind if the girl tells me to wait 5 minutes or 10, if necessary, if I am there 10 minutes before the session begins. I just don't want the time I am sitting in the parking lot counting towards my actual session time. It seems like my time is starting when I call and say I am here as opposed to starting when the door actually opens. That is where I am having a problem.

Ditto eden...I always say..."take care of your clients,and they will take care of you"

You should be entitled to that too! If I were in your shoes, I would just ask when the provider asked me to wait... "This isn't counting towards my time is it?" -- You're not paying for her to get ready OR to see someone else off!

I don't mind if the girl tells me to wait 5 minutes or 10, if necessary, if I am there 10 minutes before the session begins. I just don't want the time I am sitting in the parking lot counting towards my actual session time. It seems like my time is starting when I call and say I am here as opposed to starting when the door actually opens. That is where I am having a problem. Originally Posted by here4now