Better sex in the hobby than in the real world

I would assume for a lot of the hobbyists out there that part of the reason why they are in the hobby is for good sex!

I'm realizing now, I too get fucked better from my hobby boyfriends than by real boyfriends... I just don't know how to feel about this.

Why do you guys think that is? Why would strangers fuck us better than people who are closest to us?

And another question... why would a guy NOT want to give head?! Some guys are such prudes!!
Pepperjack's Avatar
It's all about variety. Hobbyist go for the providers that look a certain way or do certain things that they can't get, or have to work really hard to get with a regular girlfriend or significant other. By the way I love DATY. Hobbyist like to fuck with no strings attached.
True that Pepperjack! I had one real world guy friend that just would not eat me out! And I thought that was so crazy being that hobbyists will have seven course meals down there. LMAO I have to tell them to come up for air sometimes!

But good points!
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  • Netx9
  • 09-09-2014, 07:45 AM
Maybe it's time to find a different boyfriend? Or charge him for it I'm sure he'll work harder if he knows he only has an hour!! Jk, Tracy! In all seriousness, like pj said, variety and knowing what's possible (from reviews, etc) so we just go for it.

No awkward 'testing the waters' to see what the gf will let us get away with like sliding a finger past the taint to the starfish only to find out you made your girlfriend sound like a dolphin.... "uh uh! Uh uh! Uh uh!"
This pretty well sums it up.

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True that Pepperjack! I had one real world guy friend that just would not eat me out! And I thought that was so crazy being that hobbyists will have seven course meals down there. LMAO I have to tell them to come up for air sometimes!

But good points! Originally Posted by Tracy Aine
Omg!!! Why in the hell would one not want to eat your sweet pussy out?!!

Ahhh! He's gay!
I have to tell them to come up for air sometimes! Originally Posted by Tracy Aine
Air is overrated!!!

IJS!!

It's easier to let your freak out with strangers. Hobby world people aren't that judgmental compared to the real world. Although I've had many great sexual experiences in the hobby world, the best sexual experience was with an ex-girlfriend. We were both able to let a freak out with each other. Guess it was a mix of getting fucked and lovemaking.

But I guess the question is about getting fucked and not making love. In that case I get fucked really good in the hobby world . Oh and by the way I love eating pussy . I started to find out that lately I really enjoy eating pussy from behind while a woman is on all fours with my face buried in her ass. Yums!
Maybe it's time to find a different boyfriend? Or charge him for it I'm sure he'll work harder if he knows he only has an hour!! Jk, Tracy! In all seriousness, like pj said, variety and knowing what's possible (from reviews, etc) so we just go for it.

No awkward 'testing the waters' to see what the gf will let us get away with like sliding a finger past the taint to the starfish only to find out you made your girlfriend sound like a dolphin.... "uh uh! Uh uh! Uh uh!" Originally Posted by Netx9
LMFAO maybe I should start charging him.

Omg!!! Why in the hell would one not want to eat your sweet pussy out?!!

Ahhh! He's gay! Originally Posted by Izman2014
LMAO it's funny because it's true.... maybe. LMAO but seriously? I've tasted myself, he's a friggin weirdo!

It's easier to let your freak out with strangers. Hobby world people aren't that judgmental compared to the real world. Although I've had many great sexual experiences in the hobby world, the best sexual experience was with an ex-girlfriend. We were both able to let a freak out with each other. Guess it was a mix of getting fucked and lovemaking.

But I guess the question is about getting fucked and not making love. In that case I get fucked really good in the hobby world . Oh and by the way I love eating pussy . I started to find out that lately I really enjoy eating pussy from behind while a woman is on all fours with my face buried in her ass. Yums! Originally Posted by Billy Horn
I agree... it is easier to be a freak.. I've also heard from some guys that they won't do certain things with their S/O because they don't want to defile them... they'd rather do it to a stranger. True?

And being eaten from the back... oh yes!! I love that and you are really good at it too Billy
I would assume for a lot of the hobbyists out there that part of the reason why they are in the hobby is for good sex!

I'm realizing now, I too get fucked better from my hobby boyfriends than by real boyfriends... I just don't know how to feel about this.

Why do you guys think that is? Why would strangers fuck us better than people who are closest to us?

And another question... why would a guy NOT want to give head?! Some guys are such prudes!! Originally Posted by Tracy Aine
Probably because you're not in love with him! I find that sex is always pretty good inside and outside the hobby. However, the sex I was having with one particular girl that I was head over heels in love with was incredible and at an entirely different level. There was much more emotion and eroticism than with other GFs or providers. I think love and sex probably produces the best results. Call me a die hard romantic, but sex with love involved is the shit!!
Probably because you're not in love with him! I find that sex is always pretty good inside and outside the hobby. However, the sex I was having with one particular girl that I was head over heels in love with was incredible and at an entirely different level. There was much more emotion and eroticism than with other GFs or providers. I think love and sex probably produces the best results. Call me a die hard romantic, but sex with love involved is the shit!! Originally Posted by Toadvine
I agree! Love does make sex better.. but even still... my hobby sex life is better still.
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Hobby sex would be in the category of new sex in a relationship which is always better as you seem to have something to prove. A guy in a new relationship wants to be the best she has ever had so he puts in the effort but after a while just gets lazy. As there is the new / strange factor as well as a clock in hobby sex it adds excitement which probably adds to better sex! Just my .02
I would assume for a lot of the hobbyists out there that part of the reason why they are in the hobby is for good sex!

I'm realizing now, I too get fucked better from my hobby boyfriends than by real boyfriends... I just don't know how to feel about this.

Why do you guys think that is? Why would strangers fuck us better than people who are closest to us?

And another question... why would a guy NOT want to give head?! Some guys are such prudes!! Originally Posted by Tracy Aine
We hear about it all the time. Girls go for the wrong guys perhaps?

Maybe because it's better here is we have a plethora of information to work from. The rw ladies don't necessarily have reviews out there to let us know what they like, let alone don't like. Have to seek that info out. Of course conversation is key, and can happen.
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hilarious
pickupkid's Avatar
In the real world ... your'e hoping to get to second base... you're being polite watching Ps and Qs . With a provider ..its a sure thing