hobbyist and Their power trips

I have seen a pattern recently in our hobbyist ao ill start by telling my most recent incounter. I have seen this man 1 time before and he reviewed me on TER. Mind you he is the only person in a year who had giving me a Simi poor review. All others have been excellent. So, i texted him, as i do anything tome when I arrived in town and he asked my rates. Once I told him I no longer offer qk visits he started mocking me and being very offensive CallIng my names like dimwit and "stupid" just because I had 1 missed spelled word in a text message FYI we all spell. Ad on smart phones. Anyways I asked him to no longer contact me once he started tell me i was broke and wouldnt be able to make any money unless i did offer it so he continued to text and harass me and my travel partner. Telling us that he would write a bad review for her because she had fake pics. Mind you I have taken all her pics myself. AND she and my self are highly review members of eccie.net amd has had pics verified on P411.Com he then continued to harrass all because I told him I wasn't going to do $100 FS qk visits anymore and he needed to book min 30 mins. He is extremely rude and felt because he is whitelisted on TER and reviewed so many girls that he I couldn't do anything about it. Well I will do my best to try n stop this new arising behavior and any other hobbyist behaving rudely because they feel they review so well. Not cool.... this is a form of bullying amd we as providera and women should not all this to go on in fear of a bad review form a "well known highly respected reviewer". How dare you threaten this women you need us just like we need you and we should have way more respect for one any other. This seemed to be a rising issue because this is not the 1st time I have had hobbyist threaten to ruin my reputation and good reviews because they no long can afford me or do not like my menu because I choose to keep myself safe and clean. There had to be better way

Have you tried a newsletter? Instead of texting clients to let them know you are in town, you could send out a newsletter to your known (GOOD) clients. With a newsletter, you are giving him the choice of being contacted or not, you may have caught him off guard, didn't know who you were, etc. Also, you can give the guys (who want to know), the heads up so they can adjust their schedule accordingly. Dates, schedule, rates and pics can all be included in the newsletter, so there's no "Who's this?" return text, and hopefully, better dates with better clients. Good luck!

Sorry, you had to tolerate rude behavior. I would have just accepted 30, if I was him. Maybe, he was having a midlife crisis.

Come to Greenville,SC we'll treat you right!

I don't mean to pick at you... but yeah your spelling is ... bad.
You had about 7 typos in this thread post already.
But.... we are what we are. We aren't English teachers.


As far as the guys go...

Learn to say this professionally.
"I'm sorry I no longer offer that. I offer this ___________."
If he gets rude, nasty, etc, CLICK. Hang up.
No potential client is worth the aggravation of putting up with such rude behavior.

If he persists, get an app, block his calls.
If he texts, screen shot it, then block his texts.
(I like MrNumber app for this lol also blocks private calls. It's FREE. It's on playstore..)
If he emails, screenshot.
Blacklist him.

DO what you have to do to protect your own sanity & business.
One hater will not destroy you.
Matter of fact, lots of white knights love to "come to the damsel in distress."

If you have good business skills, and carry yourself that way you should, your reputation will carry you, you will steadily get better & better at what you do, and can raise your rates, because you have earned it.

No amount of sour grapes from any bitter-hard-dicked whinner will change the truth.

Carry on & UPWARDS!

P.S. Very pretty boobies! LOL
(Couldn't not acknowledge them!! )