Time Wasting Creep!!!

I got a phone call this morning from a 409 number that ends in 5414. He said his name is Hugh and found me on ECCIE. He said the member sd4u recommended him to me. I asked him to send me a PM on here with references and his P411 and he said he would, but then he just went on and on talking about his big load. He said he is famous on ECCIE for the great volume of his load, and that he was once told before to warn any new girls about it because he likes to COB. I kept telling him that's fine, and he kept asking if I had ever experienced something like that before, etc etc etc. He just wanted to keep me on the phone. He saw that I was doing doubles with Lacey and said that he had seen her before too and that she could vouch for him and his big load as she had already experienced it. Lacey does not remember him. I never got the PM, he said he thinks the website is having problems with PM's and that he was talking to the moderators about it. Then I looked him up on VerifyHim and there are similar stories about him on there with the same phone number and an email address that starts with hughstaglio and ends with yahoo something. He just wants to talk on the phone and ask about your experiences etc, a big time waster and a very sick man. I don't know if he is dangerous or not, but I don't want to find out. PM me for additional details.

And when I googled his number he has similar and worse complaints on several other sites. Some even saying he's dangerous. Said that he saw me in new Orleans, I told him he had a small thing and he blew a big load. That tells me nothing and I would NEVER say someone's thing was little even if it was a peanut. I just met Johanna a day or so ago through PM, how coincidental that as soon as she put my name in her signature someone HAPPENS to use me as a reference. Or not.

Without an actual threat of some kind to you or another member, the coed forum or the ladies Infoshare area is the appropriate place to talk about this kind of topic.

The alerts forum is reserved for the following:

Issues which could endanger the safety of a member or members of our community go here. Please reserve this space for legitimate alerts, and not general FYI material.

Moving to coed.

Jerks!!!!
He ain't wearing nobody out but himself

I don't know. After reading what the Johanna and Lacey said it sounds like he thinks his "big load" is dangerous and alert worthy.

Why would you even stay on the fone and listen to that bs? That red button that says end call is your friend.

Just hang up on him. Who cares if his load is big or small anyway.

Just hang up on him. Who cares if his load is big or small anyway. Originally Posted by dtymh55

Yup, lesson learned. Kindness doesn't always take you very far in this hobby. He's gonna keep that big load in if he doesn't learn to shut it and book something!

Who uses the word "load" anyways? Smh Johanna you are Sexy.

Googling his number and finding several other notices all over the Internet about him being DANGEROUS should constitute this being an alert... Not to mention he gave a fake reference.

This man has been labeled dangerous, how would a member not be endangered if he saw them?

He just wants to talk on the phone and ask about your experiences etc, a big time waster and a very sick man. I don't know if he is dangerous or not, Originally Posted by Johanna

Without an actual threat of some kind to you or another member, the coed forum or the ladies Infoshare area is the appropriate place to talk about this kind of topic.

The alerts forum is reserved for the following:



Moving to coed. Originally Posted by SpiceItUp

Googling his number and finding several other notices all over the Internet about him being DANGEROUS should constitute this being an alert... Not to mention he gave a fake reference. Originally Posted by LaceyAmour

This man has been labeled dangerous, how would a member not be endangered if he saw them? Originally Posted by LaceyAmour

Lacey, you may very well be right. But, take a look at the first post. I pulled out the relevant comments. The OP does not believe he is dangerous. THAT is what Spiceitup went by when he moved the alert.

The staff does not on the internet to google numbers and such. We are not the hobby police. We take care of matters on the board.

The OP said she did not think he was dangerous, so it was not a matter for our alert forum.

This would be better for the womens areas.

The OP said she didn't know if he was, I don't KNOW if he is either. Johanna and I only know what we saw on another site and mentioned on this post.

I hope another provider doesn't actually end up endangered seeing this dangerous guy bc she wasn't forewRned in the alerts.

The OP said she didn't know if he was, I don't KNOW if he is either. Johanna and I only know what we saw on another site and mentioned on this post. Originally Posted by LaceyAmour

I hope another provider doesn't actually end up endangered seeing this dangerous guy bc she wasn't forewRned in the alerts. Originally Posted by LaceyAmour

Lacey the goal was not to censor discussion of the topic but rather move it to the appropriate forum. By all means feel free to discuss it but by your own admission (and the OPs) neither you nor the OP know if he is dangerous or not and no threats were made.

The alerts forum is not a place to discuss hypotheticals but instead real and present dangers or threats to members which are outside the norm for a hobby experience.

So, as I said before, "Without an actual threat of some kind to you or another member, the coed forum or the ladies Infoshare area is the appropriate place to talk about this kind of topic."