ladies I have a question!

Jessika Sweetz's Avatar
Have any of you ladies ever given out free time?
I had a guy just tell me that all the professionals he knows gives the first ten minutes free it doesn't count.....wtf??
So I just had to ask if you ladies really do that?
I've never heard that in my life
You should ask his references.
Jessika Sweetz's Avatar
He has plenty of reviews so I'll have to ask, it just doesn't make sense??
That's like no sense at all
savak's Avatar
  • savak
  • 10-07-2014, 11:13 PM
Have any of you ladies ever given out free time?
I had a guy just tell me that all the professionals he knows gives the first ten minutes free it doesn't count.....wtf??
So I just had to ask if you ladies really do that?
I've never heard that in my life Originally Posted by London Bridge
ya know what that sounds like to me....

like when a client and a provider meet up and you get acquainted with each other where you talk and get to know each other to ease the tensions. then when yall actually fuck, thats on the clock.

sex is one of those things where sometimes you have to let the engine warm up a bit before you start riding.
Doglegg's Avatar
Savak is right, some ladies do provide a bit of light conversation to get to know one another.

Others are known to have "bills to pay, planes to catch so no mucking about with the schedule.", so the clock starts when you open the door.

Do you care to get to know the love of your life before the most joyful experience he will ever know for the next 15 minutes, or do you prefer another nameless face that you will immediately forget upon the arrival of your next guest?

The answer to these questions resides within yourself. What is your business model?

Have a pleasant stay,

Dogg
I dont think that's what shes saying guys. And no u honestly shouldn't expect the "get to know each other" time to be off the clock sorry if we go over because we have alot to talk about at first great no problem for me but u shouldn't just assume its an hour of sex + a free meet and greet.
Jessika Sweetz's Avatar
He scheduled a 90 minute appointment that's what he is there for is to get to know me, plus we have been talking for almost a week now. Plus he asked for the free time right before the visit!!
He said he's going to write something about me since I wouldn't do the free time and its Stupid. Im not a clockwatcher and never have been.
muffin101's Avatar
I think the getting to know you time should be on the clock like Nikki said.

uparoundnoon's Avatar
I agree with muffin. Especially the first few times you get together. Like we always say here "If you want more time pay for it" . I sometimes get a little extra time from ladies who I have been with more than 20 or 30 times. But I don't ask for it they just do it because I'm a regular. Like let's have a drink and it's off the clock.

BTW I Just saw London tonight and it was fantastic. And I was in and out in 30 minutes even with 3 minutes to rinse off. And she is certainly NOT a clockwatcher and never felt rushed. I just knew how much time I had because I have been doing this 20 years and have 30 and 60 minutes programmed in my brain without looking at a clock.
pickupkid's Avatar
So how does the song go..."you got the money honey ...I got the time"

???? who wants to talk...I want SEX SEX SEX?///If I want to talk I got an SO for that.
If a hobbyist has booked an hour or 90 minutes...that's his time regardless of how the initial time is spent and that time should not be considered OTC.

Some providers are more easy going with their time and don't count the first say 5 to 15 minutes as "time"...

It really comes down to you, as a provider and how you approach your business. Some girls are "You have 5 minutes left and times up"..others are not...

Bottom line it should not be expected from the Hobbyist...and he can decide after whether or not to see the girl again based on the session...
Unforgivable's Avatar
He has plenty of reviews so I'll have to ask, it just doesn't make sense??
That's like no sense at all Originally Posted by London Bridge
From my understanding you was just asked do you charge for shooting the breeze you kno. small chat just to get a feel for one another to make the session go a Lot smoother.
You say it doesn't make sense but there are providers that like to have small talk before the session. Also theres two side to this story. Im only reading one.
ck1942's Avatar
He said he's going to write something about me since I wouldn't do the free time

The above should be a red flag.

I said

RED FLAG!

One thing to ask for something, totally another to threaten retribution.

Send me his handle, please, via pm, because if he is on the social invite olist, he and I are gonna have a little chat.
See the ML for the other side of the story.
He booked for 90 mintues, and asked for 10 mintues FREE?
That seems odd.... but petty. ...scratches head...
sounds like he literally planned to fk for 90minutes...n didnt wanna pay you to "talk" :/
I would have given 10min OTC.
...10min free..90min paid....yes its business. Its time we sell...but in the grande scheme of things, 10min is nothing. A solid date was set. ..bc of it, 90min of income was lost. .... no one hound me for a FREE 10mins after reading this!!! ...

Buuuut.....you two have had constant communications, (which im sure was FREE) and it was right before the appt that he wants "more" time for free...

Seems like something else went wrong.
Maybe just fed up....bad chemistry...just simply annoyed. Etc
Idk what ive wouldve done. Ive given time OTC .... but ive also gotten irritated by my OTC time being abused.