Help me.... I'm a Newbie

Hey what's up guys
I'm new to the site
I have contact a few providers online but are not newbie friendly, most required 2 refrences
I have try to meet 2 so called providers from backpage but both never showed up. Should I write the reviews even if their awful. So that these providers online can see me.
It's very difficult getting denied because I'm new to this site
Any opinions are greatly appricated
Thanks

Search is your friend. The answers you seek can be found by befriending the Search tab.

Search is your friend. The answers you seek can be found by befriending the Search tab...... amen . Originally Posted by pyramider

FTFY

Also....

Jesus, has a pretty strong presence here, just pray a lil'

Seems to work... I think, or that's what I tell myself.

Bite the bullet and pay for a membership to Preferred411:

http://www.preferred411.com

1) Put an ISO out for newbie friendly providers who are also reference friendly.

2) Pick two that respond (or are recommended by others) that you like.

3) Enjoy.

4) Use said providers as refs. Consider seeing again or sending a gift if you supply them as a reference more than a handful of times. She's not just dying to help other ladies make money. She's doing it as a courtesy. Don't take too much advantage.

5) Enjoy.

Bite the bullet and pay for a membership to Preferred411:

http://www.preferred411.com Originally Posted by YummyMarie

P411 will save you a lot of trouble and make entering the hobby world easier.

1) Put an ISO out for newbie friendly providers who are also reference friendly.

2) Pick two that respond (or are recommended by others) that you like.

3) Enjoy.

4) Use said providers as refs. Consider seeing her again or sending a gift if you supply them as a reference more than a handful of times. She's not just dying to help other ladies make money. She's doing it as a courtesy. Don't take too much advantage.

5) Enjoy. Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport

Listen to these two gems. I believe AlyssaXo had a list of newbie friendly providers but since she is not here. Place a thread in ISO asking for newbie friendly providers. Also it helps with ISO/Request to include your area and if you want in or out call.

Good luck!

4) Never thought it was necessary to send a gift just for using someone as a reference. Just never crossed my mind, is that someone that provider expect? I always thought the references thing was mainly for the safety of you provider that shows that this particular client is safe and you would recommend then.

It is a nice gesture. Some guys will use a lady as a reference upwards of once a week. If she's not making money off of him anymore, it can get really irritating to have to answer multiple ladies all the time about the same guy, over and over, who will probably never spend another dime on her. Now multiply that by the number of gents who are doing the same thing. If you're going to be "using" a lady like this on more than a handful of occasions, I'd think a nice little gift or a second visit would be a wonderful gesture, and keep you fresh in her mind with pleasant thoughts... so that excellent reference doesn't turn into "Oh, that guy, yeah, he's fine, but be ready to only see him once and then get constant reference requests for the next year and a half."

I'm not saying it's "right" or "wrong" to do so. I'm saying it's smart and nice.

Welcome dude.

As others have mentioned, imo the best newbie advice would be to build a reputation on P411 it makes screening a breeze. I would shop on p411 for girls who are newbie friendly, look on Eccie for reviews on them (you'll need to buy a month of premium access to see the review details) to make sure they are what you're looking for, then schedule using p411

Do that a few times and write reviews on your experiences here while getting okays on p411 and you'll be in good shape to see pretty much anyone else you want.

The screening process for most girls is simple, mostly they're just trying to verify that you're not LE and not a psycho. So you just provide them with references who vouch for that and you're gtg.

After you get some reviews and especially some p411 okays most providers stop asking for additional references although some will still want a vouch. Depends on the provider.

Welcome to the dark side

Bingo...!
Once again the lovely Caroline Davenport shares some wonderful suggestions. Sharing a gift with a provider the first time I see her is a standard practice for me.

Thanks Caroline for sharing your knowledge!
One smart and lovely lady, for sure.

4) Never thought it was necessary to send a gift just for using someone as a reference. Just never crossed my mind, is that someone that provider expect? I always thought the references thing was mainly for the safety of you provider that shows that this particular client is safe and you would recommend then. Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

+1 I agree. Plus we don't know which provider(s) are being asked for a reference...so how could we say or give a "thank you" to them??? I'm all about giving or sending a thank you gift for a reference...

It is a nice gesture. Some guys will use a lady as a reference upwards of once a week. If she's not making money off of him anymore, it can get really irritating to have to answer multiple ladies all the time about the same guy, over and over, who will probably never spend another dime on her. Now multiply that by the number of gents who are doing the same thing. If you're going to be "using" a lady like this on more than a handful of occasions, I'd think a nice little gift or a second visit would be a wonderful gesture, and keep you fresh in her mind with pleasant thoughts... so that excellent reference doesn't turn into "Oh, that guy, yeah, he's fine, but be ready to only see him once and then get constant reference requests for the next year and a half."

I'm not saying it's "right" or "wrong" to do so. I'm saying it's smart and nice. Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport

I never thought about it in this way. I have 40 okays on 411 and I have no idea which provider(s) are giving me a reference when I schedule an appointment...

If I knew who they were I'd gladly send a gift as a thank you...

It is a nice gesture. Some guys will use a lady as a reference upwards of once a week. If she's not making money off of him anymore, it can get really irritating to have to answer multiple ladies all the time about the same guy, over and over, who will probably never spend another dime on her. Now multiply that by the number of gents who are doing the same thing. If you're going to be "using" a lady like this on more than a handful of occasions, I'd think a nice little gift or a second visit would be a wonderful gesture, and keep you fresh in her mind with pleasant thoughts... so that excellent reference doesn't turn into "Oh, that guy, yeah, he's fine, but be ready to only see him once and then get constant reference requests for the next year and a half."

I'm not saying it's "right" or "wrong" to do so. I'm saying it's smart and nice. Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport

My gift is leaving the incall.

^^It should be to never show up in the first place...

Thanks Caroline for your insight. I guess the moral of the story is treat your providers right and they will return it 10 fold. Oh btw you have a killer body, you have MM or those natural? Just curious