Use the search feature/tab near the top and use the term "newbie friendly". Limit the search to San Antonio and its subfolders. Make a list of the ones who interest you, after filtering the ones who also include the term NOT (make a note of those and save them for later) Send the ones you have picked a polite PM (private message) explaining your newbie status and situation. They may have you go through an alternative screening process, as long as you are comfortable with it, do as they ask. If not state that and suggest a solution, or move on quietly. Once you have made arrangements to visit a lady, do NOT haggle with the donation rate. Go and have fun. Before leaving be sure to ask if you can use them as a reference and if you can write a review of them. Return here, read this post:
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=14698
Write your review by filling out all the fields after clicking upon the "NEW REVIEW" tab at the top of the appropriate forum.
Good luck! I hope to read some of your adventures soon!!