This is my first time. I am just curious what are big NO-NO's during the appointment. And also what would be appropriate attire to get a good impression.
The biggest NO NO I can think of is Never ever discuss $ and sex together. That should already have been worked out before you meet. I'm sure if you come in wearing a suite and tie you'll impress them but I think providers mainly care that your a freshly showed. Or as Dallas put it " clean and respectful. "
Have the donation ready in an envelope. Dont hand it to her, or wait for her to ask for it. Take out the envelope, put it down without mentioning or motioning towards it. Move onto other subjects, like it was never even there. Also what was said above.
on the national boards they have some suggestions for newbies.
But, the important ones are
1) Just put the money down (I find envelopes optional, but nicely folded and pre-counted. Don't stand there and count out singles....have it ready in a pocket, toss it on a counter, then walk to the night stand and start getting comfortable.
2) Be polite. Treat the ladies well - if you have chosen well it will serve you
3) Once things get started - don't be shy about what you like or want. The girl usually wants to make you happy
Take a shower, show up on time, pay her going rate without lowballing, don't ask "what happened to your face" or "where'd your boobs go?" and don't take a dump at her incall
You SHOULD be fine.
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