Just a BJ please...

Hello, all.

I'm new to the hobby and have had only two experiences with providers. Both were a little overwhelming because I hadn't done my research, but the visits were enough to let me know that I like it! Now that I know how to research reviews and spot troublesome providers, I have a question:

If I only want a BJ, will most providers be willing to just do oral... or do they want you to do most of the work via CFS?

I realize this is a question that can't be answered until you're alone with the provider, which is why I need some mentoring here. The reason I ask is because both of the providers I saw kinda just expected that I wanted full service and neither was too open to doing something as simple as cowgirl. There are times when I just need a quick BJ to find my center, but I don't want waste anyone's time, especially my own, by finding out that a BJTC is off the menu.

Also, is there any correlation to escorts and leg tattoos? I just see an awful lot of girls with tats on their thighs and thought it might mean something.

Thanks!
Most providers would accommodate, although most of the eccie ones will charge you the same rate. However, if you check out backpage, you'll notice a lot that have "blow-in-go's" or similar for as cheap as .4 in my area. Just be careful and don't let a cheap price override your obligation to do some research on the provider. TOFTT is necessary in this hobby, but that is not something a newbie should do.

Also, if you live in an area with liberal strip clubs, you can get them cheap. I know here in Detroit, you can get a BBBJ for .4 from a reasonably hot girl at a shitty club and its much safer, or $ from a gorgeous prom-queen looking girl at a high end club.
One abbreviation to the OP. "BNG" Look for that in the ad and I think you'll be a happy camper. As far as the tats on legs I highly doubt that would be something strictly on just providers. Now there are tats that some pimps do mark their girls example a crown or something.
gearslut's Avatar
Sounds like no one ever told you rule number one. It's your dime and these very lovely ladies, I truly mean that. There's some very nice girls out there. Anyways they're called providers for a reason. A good hobbiest likes for the girl to have fun as well but they are there to take care of you so don't be shy about asking for what you want. If you want a 30min BJ then that's what it's all about. Do your research and read lots of reviews. You won't have trouble finding what you want. Down here we gots lots of ladies who are not only willing and able, they specialize in it.
Yep, BNG is probably the most economical way to go. Keep in mind that if you want to be blown for 30 min, 1 hour, or more, they may want to charge their 30 min, 1 hour, or more rate. And, they'll probably want a few breaks too.

There will of course be exceptions. If you are lucky they will post here.
Cpalmson's Avatar
I once had a session where the provider literally sucked on my cock for a complete hour. I think I got off 4 times. Each time, she just kept on sucking and swallowing. As mentioned, look for girls who offer BJs and a BNG (Blow 'N Go or Bang 'N Go).
KlassyKelliAnn's Avatar
BNGs are great. I have a strong jaw and no gag reflex.
Irish Cream's Avatar
Since I don't like condoms, BBBJ is my go-to.. But since I'm orally fixated I can worship her body for the rest of the time.

Point is that it's your money/time to spend however you want (within her menu of course)..
DallasRain's Avatar
quote---Point is that it's your money/time to spend however you want (within her menu of course)

read the reviews and showcases and find a gal tailored to your needs!

Have fun baby!!