Doms who are Actually Escorts

gothchic's Avatar
I have noticed on the Backpage Houston, Domination/Fetish section, the Doms are becoming glorified Escorts. That is giving the real Doms a bad name.
Dorian Gray's Avatar
I actually get where you coming from with this, but why did you post this in the Alerts Forum?
:shrug:
SpiceItUp's Avatar
This is an interesting topic perhaps, but it is not an alert. We try to reserve the Alerts forum for topics which present a threat of some kind to the membership.

Moving to Coed

-Spice
DarthMaul's Avatar
I have noticed on the Backpage Houston, Domination/Fetish section, the Doms are becoming glorified Escorts. That is giving the real Doms a bad name. Originally Posted by gothchic

I here where you're coming from also. I think some guys like to be dominated and then fucked. On the other hand, I have seen a DOM after her DOM Session because she was turned on and the guy wouldn't fuck her!

As for me, to quote a great singer, song writer and actor...TYRESE GIBSON....Straight Fuckin!
gothchic's Avatar
Thank you for your feedback. I didn't know which other category to put this in. I put it in Alert because I felt it was important and others needed to be alerted.
Don T. Lukbak's Avatar
I put it in Alert because I felt it was important and others needed to be alerted. Originally Posted by gothchic
Attention must be paid....

(Willy Loman)
I don't have any experience with a DOM. It would be interesting though....but I was always under the assumption that DOM's don't do FS.
  • Sonya
  • 10-29-2014, 08:55 AM
Domme* And why exactly is a professional Domme a bad thing?
Wait I'm confused. Op you describe yourself as a dominatrix.
Out_of_Bounds's Avatar
A real domme doesn't let her sub fuck her. It's giving up some of her authority.
  • Sonya
  • 10-29-2014, 09:15 AM
That's not true at all. A Domme is stable, calm and in control. Yes. And also does whatever she pleases. If it pleases her to be pleasured by her sub then he will please her. Whatever her command is. But yes sex may not be involved. Or rather release may not be involved.
Dorian Gray's Avatar
I don't thinck she is trying to disparage professional Domme's. More like trying to make people aware of straight up hookers are pretending to be Domme's.

Maybe someone with vastly more knowledge than I could explain the difference in detail
  • Sonya
  • 10-29-2014, 09:26 AM
I don't thinck she is trying to disparage professional Domme's. More like trying to make people aware of straight up hookers are pretending to be Domme's.

Maybe someone with vastly more knowledge than I could explain the difference in detail Originally Posted by Dorian Gray
You mean like someone who buys a set of cuffs and thinks they are now offering submission sessions? Well yeah, I agree. But most subs who are really into the lifestyle see right through them.
Labels and rules, please. I've seen doms that didn't let me touch them, and some that let me eat them. Some jerked me off, some didn't. Some ass fucked me with strapons and some only used toys they held in their hands. Just because you don't want to do something doesn't make those that do any less legit.
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  • Trey
  • 10-29-2014, 10:00 AM
I like the idea, I've never seen a Dom but if I did I still would want to fuck her. I don't care that some thinks you shouldn't fuck the Dom. I think its pointless to go in and not get some pussy. I'm sure that probably cuts into the profits of the Dom that just wants to do whatever it is she does in a traditional dominatrix meeting. But times change. I'm sure there are still guys that don't want to fuck the Dom, let the guys know in your ad you don't fuck. I don't know if just telling everyone " you're doing it wrong" is gonna help.
BigLouie's Avatar
There use to be a woman in Houston whose incall had both a fully stocked dungeon and a nice bedroom. When you showed up you could choose what one you wanted