Any ideas? I am feeling like WTF right now, and figured this is the place to inquiry and ask the "experts"


What is the "Official" Cougar age? And if I am 44, advertise as a "Cougar" why do older men hit me up? Then get pissed if I reject them? I mean, if I am 44, that means I am looking for younger not older right? I would think it would be clear.What advertising are you referring to? You're not a VP here, so no ads on ECCIE. I took a look at your P411 profile, and while it does say that you love younger men and makes reference to younger men seeking a cougar I don't really read it as specifically ruling out older men. Unless you expressly state that, I can see why some might be confused and approach you. Maybe you want to reword it to make that clear? P411 also lists you as 39 so perhaps an update is in order.
Any ideas? I am feeling like WTF right now, and figured this is the place to inquiry and ask the "experts"Originally Posted by Kimberdoll
I have no idea why it had my age listed as 39, the scroll box had me born in 75' lol I wish!Not at all. 70% of us guys here appreciate the heads up, thanks!
I travel so at times I will use bp to advertise, just depending on the area. Even on p411 the older guys hit me up after reading the ad. No offense to anyone, just as you have your preference of the lady you like to see, I also have a personal preference of the clientele that I will see.
And usually I get hate mail from older men after I politely decline. Very rude and mean. I do not treat people that way and it isnt cool to be treated that way either.
As far as in the wrong biz, I happen to get a lot of guys looking for the older woman. Its a niche market. And like I say, I will only see the men I have an attraction to, the same as in my personal life. No point in wasting your time or money if I meet up with you and have no chemistry or desire to even be in the same room as you are.
I have a feeling I am going to get bashed for being honest on this board.... Originally Posted by Kimberdoll
I have no idea why it had my age listed as 39, the scroll box had me born in 75' lol I wish!
I travel so at times I will use bp to advertise, just depending on the area. Even on p411 the older guys hit me up after reading the ad. No offense to anyone, just as you have your preference of the lady you like to see, I also have a personal preference of the clientele that I will see.
And usually I get hate mail from older men after I politely decline. Very rude and mean. I do not treat people that way and it isnt cool to be treated that way either.
As far as in the wrong biz, I happen to get a lot of guys looking for the older woman. Its a niche market. And like I say, I will only see the men I have an attraction to, the same as in my personal life. No point in wasting your time or money if I meet up with you and have no chemistry or desire to even be in the same room as you are.
I have a feeling I am going to get bashed for being honest on this board.... Originally Posted by Kimberdoll