Just curious - do you prefer to hobby with someone whom you have spent time with before, or would you rather spread the wealth to all different girls?
And do you ladies prefer customers you have seen before or does it matter?
To start it off, while I don't hobby often, I prefer to do it with girls I've seen before - especially if I feel like we had some sort of chemistry together. I had one girl that she was my go-to girl whenever I needed a fix. My last one has potential to be one that might be my next go-to girl. When I find someone I like, I don't usually try a lot new.
I'm willing to give every women in this business a chance. I like different flavors and have different options depending on my mood. Each provider has their own special talents. I have 2 regulars I see on ECCIE and 1 regular on Rochester Backpage. But I have reached out to other providers to keep a good variety in my life.
I love seeing the regulars I have because you do have that comfortable feeling and if you have a great sexual chemistry its even better :-)
But I do like new guys I like the variety lol and the meeting someone new feeling.
CONVO, overnights, period.
With regulars you have the potential to build on an already good thing and make it even better; even great. Or, at least, keep it consistently beneficial for both parties. With new clients, not knowing exactly what they want, where they want it, or how fast they want it, among other factors, there's a bit of anxiety involved that can sometimes put a damper on things.
With regulars you have the potential to build on an already good thing and make it even better; even great. Or, at least, keep it consistently beneficial for both parties. With new clients, not knowing exactly what they want, where they want it, or how fast they want it, among other factors, there's a bit of anxiety involved that can sometimes put a damper on things.
Originally Posted by heatherelite
Totally agree.
I have a regulars that knows what I like to do, makes life better. I also monger around and try new and different. It comes down to the individual guy and what they want.
Always been happy doing both. Variety is the spice of life and enjoy the hunt. However do have a some regs that have been seeing for many years due to great chemistry, no clock, great rates and plenty of fun.
As was often pointed out up in the GWN......treat the ladies right and reap the benefits......
With regulars you have the potential to build on an already good thing and make it even better; even great. Or, at least, keep it consistently beneficial for both parties. With new clients, not knowing exactly what they want, where they want it, or how fast they want it, among other factors, there's a bit of anxiety involved that can sometimes put a damper on things.
Originally Posted by heatherelite
I couldn't agree more but I'm with Amber on the variety thing as nervous as it may make me at times. I love all types of everyone, I could never be completely straight or monogamous, the hobby is perfect for exploring everything.
I give my regulars and return Gents specials because I appreciate them so much.
Both....I have a couple regulars who I see often but I do enjoy a variety also. My aft I have seen probably 50-60 x and she never gets old lol, She knows what I like and we work well together and really seem to enjoy the time together. Also the fact of just knowing who you are going to see when the door opens lol. But who don't like to see some new talent? Sometimes it's all about the hunt ya know, the exitement of being with someone new.
I have an ATF that I have been seeing for several years now and I'm always so happy ever time I get to see her! In a way it's relaxing but also at the same time it's exciting to know what to expect each time we get together. She has a great personality beside being very pretty and sexy!! She remembers things about my personal life and will ask how I'm doing.(it does make a difference!!) I have seen other girls( when I do it feels like I'm cheating on my favorite??) and most of them have been nice but as they say "the grass is not always greener".But I'm still always curious about the other girls that the guys talk about on Eccie or that I see on BP(are their pics real or not! Lol)
or the like the ones that have commented on this post ,Lexxxy, Amber Does and heatherelite. also tricia.xxx. countrygirl is someone that seems very interesting!! It's kind of like other things in life such as employment, should I stay where I'm at or take a chance and apply for that new job which might or might not be better??
I know when it's all said and done this is still a business and my ATF and I have a very good business relationship if you will!!
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Prefer seeing regulars. It's all about TRUST. If you're seeing somebody new, you may walk into a hornet's nest, or worse yet an undercover cop.
I like my atfs, gives me the situation, comfort, consistent. Exploring for new a new atf can also be exciting.
I generally stick to the same 2 - 3 Ladies. Having said that, I also have gone outside of that group for various reasons and have a bucket list of female "types" and things that I would like to try or repeat. For the Ladies I see often. I like to think that they enjoy themselves more knowing that its someone they have seen before, don't have to screen or worry is LE and knows what their "on buttons" are. They also get some security from knowing that they will be getting a somewhat consistent income. But I have also had Ladies I have known for Years lie to me, rip me off or push me away. Not sure if they were just tired of me or if some other influences in their lives took over. But live, learn and hopefully move on to a better thing (frankly so far they have all been better than what came before).