This subject has been brought up many times but since there are always new members, information sharing is always helpful.
Every provider has a different screening method. You have the right to comply or decline, just as she does. I am not very newbie friendly these days, so my points are more directed to seasoned hobbyists. I welcome other providers to chime in with helpful tips for screening.
I prefer P411 or am PM via Eccie to start. If you text and say, "I am "fuckmachine222" on eccie, I will ask you to Pm me to prove it. I can tell you I am Kate Moss, but....
As an indy provider, I have had a Fake review posted that the moderators would not remove. It was a positive review. I confirmed with another provider that she also had the same issue with this handle. So, the fact that you have reviews on Eccie doesn't guarantee that you are safe and legit.
The more detailed you can be, the more a provider appreciates it. Here is an example of a perfect e-mail request:
Hi, I am visiting NOLA on ___. I would like to see if you are available for incall on _(Day)_ at _(time)_ .
I saw ___ in October in Mobile. I met her at ___. My phone number is ___. She will remember me as the guy who ___. KEY FACTORS: Name and contact of provider, YOUR phone number, WHERE AND WHEN you saw her.
I also saw ____(same as above)
Guys, please be patient. We are just trying to stay safe.
For the guy who is a newbie, you either have to be very patient or you will have to give personal info, or both. Ultimately, the choice is yours. Do what is comfortable for you, but don't complain about the girl who chooses to be cautious.
My personal request is that if you are not an established client, please don't text me with a bunch of questions. Identify yourself if you choose to text.
That is my rant for the month. Ladies, please chime in with your preferences.