Striking Out...

I'm starting to think there are bad nights of the week to call providers... Last night, I called 10 ladies before I got an response... turned out to be a guy who said the lady wasn't working that night. Then #11 had a some very reasonable incall offerings and looked great... rang, didn't pick up but called me right back... only to say she was doing only outcalls for an hour minimum. Hmm... ad said in/out so I assumed in was available.

On to the next one... #12 I saw one of the Elfs (Elves?) had posted an ad. Gave her a call and although very polite over the phone she said she doesn't meet gentlemen after a certain time and offered to set up an appointment for later or said that I could call back in the morning. Since I knew I had a full day of shooting ahead of me, I declined the offer (begrudgingly) and went to bed.

Just my luck, after I give up, I get a call from a lady I used to see asking me when I'd come out and see her again (we're old friends from before she became a provider) that she missed my face and the fun times we had. It was all good until I realized she was looking to make a certain amount that night and was hoping I'd be her financial stop-gap. Normally, I would have seen her but, after the night I had had... I was tired and no longer in a giving mood. She didn't beat it over my head or anything but she made it clear that it would be a great help to her.

Maybe I'll stick to sugarbabies when it comes to playtime after midnight...

Aww..and Yes it should be fun not a hassle. Some ladies can drop what they are doing and cum and others cant or choose to schedule.

Unfortunately, your experience isn't that unusual especially these days. Better luck next time.

Wow sorry you had such a struggle finding someone. Unfortunately as it was mentioned above, some ladies only work certain hours and need more advanced scheduling. I know that I will see gents later at night as long as I have at least an hours notice (with the exception of last night - a long day of traveling & lack of sleep made me a cranky girl and decided it wouldn't be a good idea to see any gents )

Better luck next time babe!!

Lux

Unfortunately it is all too common. However, I hope maybe I can plan better next time... or call early and schedule a late appointment. Unfortunately, I dont always know that I'm going to be free until I am. *shrug* story of my life. LOL

FS,

I know what you mean. I prefer girls that are more professional, and not the post 300 times/day on BP. But usually my hobby time pops up at the last minute and can't always be planned. And many of those types of ladies need or prefer more time. I get it, but it can be frustrating when you got the time and money and no date

So was it you whom called at like 2:15 this morning lol?

I get a TON of calls after I'm in bed. I turn my ringer off around midnight and I'll wake up and check my phone and have calls from like 3 or 4am. I'm like, why are they even up that late? LOL. It may be insomnia or they wanna hook up before they go to work or whatever but then again it may be something else. Ya never know. The last late night session I went to, I walked in and it looked like x-mas time on his coffee table. I told him I had to leave as I wasn't comfortable being around that.

Good for you allie,there is no need for men to think just because we do what it is we do that we live on the dark side of the moon we say who,when,where and for what(sorry so totaly stole the from pretty woman).I dont deal with any sort of extras like that at all i dont play that way,A drink or two might be ok once i get to know you,but other then that no sir.
I dont know why those of the hobbiest (not saying all but those whom do know whom i am talking about) seem to think we are a 7/11 store,we cant run on no sleep,nor food or water,I guess ther are those that seem to think we dont have lives outside of work.or that we just go and go and go...we arent the engergiser bunny we cant do that ......me on the other hand is more like duracel..... you cant beat the copper top lol.

Very few girls post acceptable hours on their ads or websites. This would be extremely helpful to those of us who like late night/early morning encounters. What is so difficult about puting "please no calls after 10 pm" on your ad? If you don't post hours, we won't know. The only way to find out is to call.

I get a TON of calls after I'm in bed. I turn my ringer off around midnight and I'll wake up and check my phone and have calls from like 3 or 4am. I'm like, why are they even up that late? LOL. It may be insomnia or they wanna hook up before they go to work or whatever but then again it may be something else. Ya never know. The last late night session I went to, I walked in and it looked like x-mas time on his coffee table. I told him I had to leave as I wasn't comfortable being around that. Originally Posted by Allie_Kat

LOL i gave you a call last night also Allie... now I know not to call after midnight

And... ewww drugs are bad... m'kay!

Very few girls post acceptable hours on their ads or websites. This would be extremely helpful to those of us who like late night/early morning encounters. What is so difficult about puting "please no calls after 10 pm" on your ad? If you don't post hours, we won't know. The only way to find out is to call. Originally Posted by swarmyone

Not only that, but it would also be helpful if a lady posts that they're only doing outcalls instead of posting an ad stating incall & outcall rates and then when you call they day, "Sorry, I'm only doing outcalls." In some cases can be a difference of $50 - $100 for outcall services.

Another issue is if you have a problem with men of color. Typically I don't run into this with the providers I visit... but I'm seeing a trend even with someone I had seen before. Sucks to kill 50 minutes of your night planning an appointment, driving out to the incall... waiting for her to be ready... walking past the shady elements of the incall location she happens to be at... get to the door and step in only to hear... "I'm sorry, I can't see you because you're black." and then make that same trip all the way back home.

So was it you whom called at like 2:15 this morning lol? Originally Posted by katkisses2000

Nope... wasn't me

I second this. If you have a BP ad pop at 8 am, my assumption would be you're available. Very seldom the case. I can't plan as far in advance as I like and hours would help greatly. Right now, if the opportunity presents, I end up calling 5-10 providers. If I'm lucky, will get one or two call backs that might work out. The majority of the time, get told no time till later in the day. Usually doesn't work out. Really wish I had a job that required travel again. Could really get things organized and no pressure from a limited window of opportunity.

why are they even up that late? Originally Posted by Allie_Kat

They have to wait until their wives are asleep!