Ironically, they were the ones who brought up the fact about being more candid about being ok and actually wanting a physical relationship with out the "strings"... .
Originally Posted by SNL9933
So I am pretty much going in reverse, or the old school way of things, lol.
I am almost 29 now, and at a point where I am ready to "settle down". I don't think I will ever want children and all that, but I am definitely thinking about marriage and want that for my future. (I am single atm, no one on my radar, but I definitely want to be married one day.)
When I was younger (like starting from age 18 or so), I was wild and crazy, lol. I have had many, many sexual relationships with people that were nothing more than that. I enjoyed it, and had lots of fun, I have never been one to be hemmed in by society and what is "acceptable" according to them, but now I think I have gotten it all out of my system.
And that is kinda my point too, I think if people (both men and women), just let themselves have what they want, then it would solve a lot of problems. I think your 20s are your time to be young and free and just have fun. I know many people my age, and a bit younger, who are already married and have kids. I mean, I guess if that is what they want, good on them, but I personally feel happy about how I have spent my 20s thus far and am looking forward now, to the next stage in my life.
But no matter what your age, it's just sex! It is meant to be fun and be enjoyed, so if all you want is a causal fuck, then why not I say??!!!!