- sammythesexkitten
- 11-24-2014, 08:16 PM
I am not one to blast people, or put them out there, but when you have me drive two hours for an appointment, and not answer your phone then all that goes out the window! I haven't been on the scene for a month or so, and with the Holidays here, things are not as good as I wish they were! So for me to come out of my pocket, pay for a room, gas, and on top of it all, I had a bad feeling about this dude so I asked him to provide a deposit for the hotel. (I really didnt have the funds to spend!) He tells me (wood3456) that he was going to get it, and I could start to head out. I guess you could say I fell for it! Well two hours later I tried calling him, first it went to voice mail, then he would answer, and not say anything, after I spent the money for a room. I dont entertain all the time, I have kids, and a regular 9-5, so when I do, I like to provide A+ service to the my gentlemen, and this Asshat has the nerve to play these games. So two hours into me trying to call him, he finally answers, and tells me he dropped his phone, and his words "its fucked up" which is language I dont condone, especially if we have never met! I asked him if he could reimburse my time, and hotel fee, he tells me yes, well, here I sit, he hasnt answered his phone, and on top of it, he has contacted a few girls looking to set up appointments and at the last minute flakes, this I just found out! well I can say this is part of it, but I have never come a cross any gentlemen from eccie who plays games like this, nor any where else. He knew I was in Hattiesburg, and he was in Jackson, he asked me to come to him. Girls this one plays games, and honestly isnt worth the time. he only has one review, and didnt have any other references. If he contacts you by pass him, leave him for BP, cause this shitface deserves it, (Bait & switch, and games, which BP is full of). I wouldnt care if I was already in Jackson, or something came up, but he was full of shit from the beginning! wood3456 601 209 *65* I am pissed, but hey shit happens!
- When You Are Ready
- 11-24-2014, 09:37 PM
SexySam this should not have happened. You have a right to be upset.
- tabitharain
- 11-25-2014, 12:52 PM
- bc7274
- 11-25-2014, 04:22 PM
- vicinms
- 11-26-2014, 10:56 PM
Sorry for the wasted time and money.
Btw, as a reminder Alert forum is reserved for:
Issues which could endanger the safety of a member or members of our community go here. Please reserve this space for legitimate alerts, and not general FYI material.
I'll move it to the Coed Discussion forum now, but let me know if you'd rather have it moved to the Ladies Infoshare forum.
Btw, as a reminder Alert forum is reserved for:
Issues which could endanger the safety of a member or members of our community go here. Please reserve this space for legitimate alerts, and not general FYI material.
I'll move it to the Coed Discussion forum now, but let me know if you'd rather have it moved to the Ladies Infoshare forum.
- gptblx
- 11-27-2014, 07:59 PM
Sammy that sucks! I know you will find better hobbyist,and soon someone will make up for the scum bag.
- Precious_b
- 11-28-2014, 12:38 PM
This website, at its core, is for Hobbyist to find Providers.
Providers to put up ads.
With that said, Hobbyist always complain about Providers NCNS. And since this is a site that is for the Hobbyist to determine what he wants to spend funds on, Hobbyist can get away on the boards to voice such a thing.
BUT when Provider complains about it happening to her, more often than not, she will be the lightening rod for negative attention.
It is not a fair setup for the Provider when this happens. Especially when it is the Hobbyist part of the equation to essentially fund for the expenses of play (by accepting the Providers donation.) To setup an appointment and have her accept the initial cost of supplying the essentials for a pleasant affair for the Hobbyist and than have him back out is just not right. And that is putting it mildly.
With the Providers I know, I hear this happening ALOT! And it is downright bad manners for Hobbyist to do. Moreso, they seem to accept it as SOP. This is just rude on so many levels. And i'm talking about Providers also when it comes to cancelling on a whim.
This should stop. If you back out of an agreed playtime, you should make up for it in the very near future or put the funds behind you promise. I have always done this.
Providers to put up ads.
With that said, Hobbyist always complain about Providers NCNS. And since this is a site that is for the Hobbyist to determine what he wants to spend funds on, Hobbyist can get away on the boards to voice such a thing.
BUT when Provider complains about it happening to her, more often than not, she will be the lightening rod for negative attention.
It is not a fair setup for the Provider when this happens. Especially when it is the Hobbyist part of the equation to essentially fund for the expenses of play (by accepting the Providers donation.) To setup an appointment and have her accept the initial cost of supplying the essentials for a pleasant affair for the Hobbyist and than have him back out is just not right. And that is putting it mildly.
With the Providers I know, I hear this happening ALOT! And it is downright bad manners for Hobbyist to do. Moreso, they seem to accept it as SOP. This is just rude on so many levels. And i'm talking about Providers also when it comes to cancelling on a whim.
This should stop. If you back out of an agreed playtime, you should make up for it in the very near future or put the funds behind you promise. I have always done this.