Lets be honest here ....

There are very few men in the hobby that know what loyalty and honor is all about, same with the women.

As a retired woman, helping men break their most sacred of vows is rather disgusting for money. We all know it, facing the truth is the hardest thing to do. How many other outlets are there to make money and we had picked the easiest one.

Men lying, cheating and sneaking around like little weasels, come on now, yeah, that is why people get married. What happen to love, honor, respect and obey?

God really wants that, the thing is, we all think it. None of these men around here give honestly two shits about us as human beings. They are in it for the nut and to get off.

We are in it for the money and pretending is just another lie and deception we tell ourselves to justify us making the money. How long does it take for someone in the hobby to realize we are more important and matter more than that.

Ladies, you all deserve better and deserve a good man to treat you with the utmost respect and love that you require. There is one out there.

Gentlemen, maybe you should take that spark and effort that you bring to the hobby and give it to your wife. If your not married or with not someone then disregard this message.

I am burning my bridges on purpose. I want a better life with good karma, one where I am not helping the men in this community betray something so wonderful than a woman who loves them and committed to them for life over LUST of all things.

I wish everyone the best and I hope everyone finds the right way. But we all know the truth about each other in the hobby, lets face it. Betrayal is betrayal, I never want to hurt another woman again. Or myself, i will not, and I recommend that all you wonderful women around here get the HELL OUT of this environment.

Only then will you now what it truly is to love yourself and not allow these men to invade your body and treat it like a temple that it truly is. go ahead flame away. The truth hurts and I finally faced it in my life.

Best wishes to all and I pray that everyone stops hurting someone they love before it gets done to them on a level they wont even be able to comprehend. You do truly reap what you sow.

Later All...Flame On, Flame On

If your [sic] not married or with not [sic] someone then disregard this message. Originally Posted by SloaneMacallan

Will do.

Does that mean you will be contacting all of your past John's to apologize and give back the money and/or gifts they spent on you? The only way to truly clear your conscience and karma is to revisit those you affected in the past and make things right .. at least according to My Name is Earl.

You mean all the wives that are effected? Sure give me the numbers I will talk to them and ask for forgiveness.

Does that mean you will be contacting all of your past John's to apologize and give back the money and/or gifts they spent on you? The only way to truly clear your conscience and karma is to revisit those you affected in the past and make things right .. at least according to My Name is Earl. Originally Posted by satexasguy

yeah I had the same idea but now that I really think about it, Im sure they hobbyist would rather keep there secrets than let Sloan purify herself. *Sigh*

The SO has nothing to do with the picture. The SO did not partake in event(s). Therefore, their karma is not affected. Your karma and the karma of the hobbyist you provided services to are the ones affected. It is the hobbyist that tainted their karma. Therefore, you must make right with the hobbyist. And again, that would include helping them clear their conscience by returning any money and/or gifts they spent on you.

I love it when someone "finds the light". They want to put blame on others for what they did in the past. The reality is that who you were back then and who you are now is the same person. You should not try to throw fire and brimstone at others when you are the only one to blame for YOUR actions in the past.

I can't wait to hear Wicked MILF's response.

o yea this is gonna be good! let me get a beer n sit back.

me too ... i said enough ... now to hear the rest of the story.

Yawn... boring typical male trying to rationalize betraying their Marriage Vows, kinda disgusting if you think about it. Glad I dont partake any longer.

and I repeat...This is a community for a certain lifestyle and you have quit it. Part of quitting this lifestyle, this community is to leave Sloan. Please just stop writing, disable your account and leave, leave all this behind you and move on.

I can't wait to hear Wicked MILF's response. Originally Posted by satexasguy

Yup me too satxguy, me too...

It will be more boring flames, wrong is wrong. Ill just sit here and laugh some more to see how many people try to rationalize the lies and deception. That is all it is or else no one would be hiding.

Sloan...I sense alot of bitterness and anger towards San Antonio ECCIE members. I don't know what happened to you that cause all these anger and bitterness but get some counseling or all that anger will destroy you. Good luck to you.

I have nothing to lie about. I am single with no SO. The only one lieing is you to yourself. I am not rationalizing anything .. simply stateing the facts.

Sloan everyone make there choices in there life.... Wish you happiness