Maybe I am being hypocritical, as I do have a small tattoo. But, what is up with all the tattoos on many of the providers? I know its their body and they can do as they please, but it is a real turn off for me, anyone else?
One or two small tats are okay for my tastes, but that's about it.
I also feel the same way about breast enhancement, I prefer the natural look.
You see, I view a woman's body as the most wondrous art ever created.
It is like putting graffiti on a Monet or hitting the wrong note playing Mozart.
Why change what is already perfect?
Originally Posted by BigMikeinKC
Mike,
My feelings exactly. Most of the guys attached to the special unit I was with in the Marine Corps got the same tattoo; I didn't. But after 9-11 I have been tempted. Just some old tapes my upbringing that keeps that keep playing in my head saying: "Tattoos are wrong, Tattoos are wrong."
Maybe I can pull myself out of this, and turn that old tape off. As for breast enhancement, my first wife died of breast cancer and went through living hell. But the breast enhancement helped her feel better about herself. It was worth the expense in every way. As a young man, I learned that the ladies really view their breasts as a means of self identification. I later dated a young woman with one breast smaller than the other. It didn't matter to me one bit, but it surely bothered her. She had a procedure to have the match, and she was really happy and had a totally great attitude.
I appreciate breasts - a lot; but, when it comes to the ladies, I want to find out what they are as a person.
As for body piercing: I just don't understand this as all, except for the ears, and maybe a jewel in the belly button.
Things have changed, and I try to understand the person. But, body piercing always bring up the question: Why?
JR