I am glad this thread was
introduced today.
A guy SHOULD understand and
respect our screening methods
without complaining or dictating
the way we do things.
Originally Posted by siberia
I've said this very thing many times. However, if you have guys complaining about giving you their personal information - it's probably because you're new to the area.
The issue is this ... I have given my info to well-established gals who've been around awhile and I have no problems with that ... as long as they've had plenty of chances to "fuck up" but haven't. What I mean by a "fuck up" is ... basically being careless or worse - doing malicious things with someone's info. If a girl's been here awhile she's seen it all and done it all ... been provoked ... and yet has stuck to the principle of "discretion".
I also talk to providers about their opinions on certain girls. If a particular gal has had a problem maintaining discretion - they'll usually tell me "off the record". Word gets around ... either through some ill-fated ECCIE post, or just scuttlebutt.
There's certainly a few women on ECCIE that I've seen enough from here on the boards to know I don't ever want to give them personal info. But then, the vast majority of them ... I wouldn't have a problem with.