If you all care so much..... Why are the Johns training the new Whores?
New ladies register every day on ECCIE and there is a rush every day for guys to be first..... Many want the review discount... Many want a chance to "help her and teach her" which is basically a game plan for being her hero and getting some favors in return....
Shouldn't you ladies be taking care of your own?
I know... I know.... In a lot of cases they are younger and prettier as well as newer..... but set aside the fear of competition if you all really give a shit about each other.....
Come together and draft Welcome Message with information on screening, where to work, where not to work, who the current ones to avoid are etc...... Set up a panel and take turns volunteering and monitor the welcome wagon and new registrations and make a point of zapping it off to every new gal as they pop in.....
Include contact information for a few "Mother Hens" and look out for each other.....
Reading the alert threads as well as boards it seems pretty apparent that most new girls are learning in more of a trial by fire process.....
Some of you beat them up pretty good AFTER the fact for not knowing better.....
You could do more to look after each other by being proactive....
Hookers Helping Hookers
I agree 100 percent with your
idea on this subject but most
are busy with their family babe.
Excellent help has been in my
favor by an seasoned eccie
provider.
Good idea.
Whispers I think you know this by now..
Women do not put on make up or do their hair or any of those beauty regimens for men.
WOMEN DO IT FOR OTHER WOMEN!!!
and Women see other women as competition
men do not give two rats asses if she is has a fuking Prada or Gucci handbag or is wearing the newest eye shadow.
all we care about is how I am going to get my dick in her mouth, pussy or ass!
So Patty Provider will have to figure it out on her own and or get advice from seasoned Johns...
It's the Reason TEAM SL has been so busy.... selfish bitches!
First, this is a profession, not a half way house. Second, women get on the infoshare, powder room, other screening tools and answer questions all the time.
There is also copious information out there on the internet via several escort blogs that off viable information. That's what I used when I first started because I knew no one and also didn't know ofthese sites. They were very helpful. Men like to see new women for the same d reason they always have, which is by the way the very reason this exists in the first place. Novelty. Why must you assume that women new to the business was is victimization? You sem to have this very misguided notion that posting in the welcome wagon is "help". Most women never check that thread; I don't. I'm not looking for fresh meat.
I check the infoshare regularly; and the other ladies area as well a few other discussion forums. When someone asks a question to which I can be of assistance, I answer. As do most of the active ladies on these boards.
This post makes absolutely no sense. I will offer one thing, however. It would be helpful for the ladie, someone a basic protocol for screening. There does seem to be a good bit of things falling through the cracks of late. A basic list can insure that you don't skip a step.
Whispers,
You've been around long enough... You should know ppl by now. Many think they know everything there is to know about their chosen path. Heck, I've been in this for years and I am constantly reading up on things, talking to other ladies, etc, and I learn something new on a regular basis.
I've contacted many ladies as soon as they made into the WW. Offered help in all the aspects you brought up. I ask for NOTHING in return. I want them safe and I wish someone had extended their hand and experience when I started. Do you know what the standard answer is (that's when I get one and the pimp just doesn't ignore me)? "Thanks hun... I have a few guys helping me out. I got this".
I wish them luck and c'est la vie.
And also, Austin has one of the best communities of ladies. Out private areas are very active and, I assure you, there is no lack of information being shared among seasoned ladies and with newer members here.
Remember ladies.
There is no "I" in eccie
You know whispers, that advice, though some of it is good, is a little hard to swallow fr someone who has stayed very clearly on this board that you think screening is a useless tool. Why is now somehow useful when it's your idea. Honestly, I have read some of the most irresponsible things regarding screening from you, including the ridiculous idea thatusing the internet to screen is not helpful because as I believe tour argument went, it wasn't always a done that way. You have also advised men to circumvent a ladies agency if she doesn't want to see them, by just just contacting them via another avenue. And these are just the little gems of advice I remember. You have been part of the problem, and now you want criticize the other ladies, no whore, for not doing enough??? Your level of hypocrisy here is truly delusional. I think you are so hungry for relevancy and attention that you will take on an issue without even realizing that you've once argued for exactly the opposite.
Remember ladies.
There is no "I" in eccie
Originally Posted by knotty man
You never fail to make me giggle.
Game is to be sold not told
Sorry it may seem cold but I don't give a crap about other girls knowing how to run their business. I have a child I'm here to provide for and when im not doing that im spending time with her not pimpn on green hookers for free.
I can offer a little advice here and there when asked directly but I have no time or interest in being involved in anyone's business.
You know whispers, that advice, though some of it is good, is a little hard to swallow fr someone who has stayed very clearly on this board that you think screening is a useless tool.
Sorry Darlin but noone else is saying it.....
Why is now somehow useful when it's your idea.
It might not be and it's not a new idea or my idea..... As to why is "now" a good time to put the idea back out there..... There are some pretty current examples of ladies making mistakes in how they are doing things adn seeing some people that some of the ladies like to come along and rub other ladies noses in it....
Honestly, I have read some of the most irresponsible things regarding screening from you, including the ridiculous idea that using the internet to screen is not helpful because as I believe tour argument went, it wasn't always a done that way.
I don't believe in screening. I've said it a few times over the years... I can understand why a provider would disagree.... My views on screening and advice stems from more yeas of experience than a lot of ladies have lived though..... Guys I share with tend to appreciate it.
You have also advised men to circumvent a ladies agency if she doesn't want to see them, by just just contacting them via another avenue.
I tend to enjoy Agencies actually and try to build a decent relationship with them. I'm not sure what you believe I may have said in that gives you that opinion. The only reason a guy might try to go around an Agency booker is if he does not have a good relationship with one or he's cheap and trying to pay less.
And these are just the little gems of advice I remember. Don't worry.... I'm brushing off the dust and getting rid of the cobwebs on those writings and will refresh your memory
You have been part of the problem, and now you want criticize the other ladies, no whore, for not doing enough???
Hey! It was just a suggestion..... I am sure there are no shortage of guys that are totally in line for you ladies ignoring what I have to say.... I've already heard from a few for telling me to shut the fuck up...
Your level of hypocrisy here is truly delusional. I think you are so hungry for relevancy and attention that you will take on an issue without even realizing that you've once argued for exactly the opposite.
Originally Posted by chelseabean
I haven't "taken on an issue"..... Just tossed out a suggestion......
My stating that guys should stay out of a ladies business and to let the ladies look out for the ladies goes back a lot of years..... I assure you that anyone believing I cared whether or not you or any other lady took the advice posted is remiss.... Thinking that it in anyway suggests I support screening is just ludicrous....
Don't worry..... The near future will cement in everyone's mind that my advice is for the guys....
Don't worry..... The near future will cement in everyone's mind that my advice is for the guys....
Originally Posted by Whispers
Oh great, we have more ridiculously long and boring diatribes to look forward to, yay! I liked it better around here when it was the Toyz show. At least when I read his posts, I didn't feel like I was trying to stay awake whilst listening to a tenured professor droning on and on and on. And on. And on.