WOW! Amazing men...

Just wanted to say that I had a GREAT night....without being specific, I made a new friend and it was WONDERFUL in every way. I had a blast, and was blown away by ths fella by his charm, kindness, everything!

It just amazes me how I will be having a bad week, but someone will show up and change everything. You can make such a difference in people's lives! Good and bad, but when it happens in a good way, your belief in the basic goodness of people is reinforced. I am not trying to be cheesy, but I was really thinking hard about the hobby. I have always said, when you're not having fun anymore - it's time to quit!

I just wanted to say thank you to a very special gentleman who made my freaking week last night and to ALL of you out there who have changed me and blessed my life in countless ways! You are all so special to me!

Also, thanks in advance to those who I will meet in the future. I will try my best to pass on this most spectacular gift! AWESOME!

Your absolutely correct!

There are some amazing wonderful men that come into our lives, even if only for a moment. That leave us smiling endlessly! Men like that are few & far between.

Your absolutely correct!

There are some amazing wonderful men that come into our lives, even if only for a moment. That leave us smiling endlessly! Men like that are few & far between. Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

ditto!!
there are some that will occasionally cross my mind bc the way they made me feel during our brief time together.
im sure they know who they are.
the exitement is written all over my face

Girls... you two are not joking. I know some folks are looking at that rapturous post 'and saying "Oh, yeah, kiss some ass. Right. " Truth is that I don't give on rat's ass about having dough OR labels. Yes, money is nice but if that's why you hobby then you won't last long and you will be a miserable mofo in the end.

Yes, Ms. Kitti..I'll take that "feeling" over cash any day of the week baby!!

That's what I've always said! Yes, there are lots "bad apples," but the great ones always outnumber the bad. I've been very blessed to have made some AWESOME friends...EACH and EVERYONE of you ROCK!!

Thank you for always putting my "shit-eatn'" grin on my face...oh, and for my "youthful" glow! (hee hee!)

That's what I've always said! Yes, there are lots "bad apples," but the great ones always outnumber the bad. I've been very blessed to have made some AWESOME friends...EACH and EVERYONE of you ROCK!! Originally Posted by Likinikki

ditto to that!
some may get tired of me saying that this is a hobby for me as well.
the excitement, and meeting new people, especially the ones that leave a lasting impression is what makes me really enjoy being here!

kissing ass? no way! im sure the gents like a positive thread about how great they make us feel. and to know that we do think of them, and appreciate them!!

happy hobbying to all!!

you Ladies are two sweet

The fellas don't get told enough so thank you Tara for the thread!!

Nikki , am I included as a good apple? lol

Your only get 1 chance to make an impression when you meet someone. Treat a lady properly and you will reap the benefits of a great encounter.

Thanks gents! Well said girl!

I'm curious. What is it you ladies are referring to that makes a gent special? Is it his skills behind closed doors? Or is it the kindness, humor, generosity etc he demonstrates while visiting? Or both?

Also, do you like a man who just gets down to business? Or do you like to spend a few moments breaking the ice, chit-chatting about nothing in particular? Do you like it when the gent expresses an interest in you, like asking where you are from, do you like SA etc? Or do you consider those intrusive questions which are none of his business?

skills are icing on the cake!
for me...its those that have a positive vibe about them. they are not intrusive, nor negative -its understood without saying that this our dirty little secret!

im a fun & silly persn, i like it when we can talk about nothing, laugh at everything...and smile for no reason. thats totally awesome in my book!

getting straight to business, doesnt matter to me! sometimes you gotta just put something in my mouth to shut me up. lol... hey, we can talk after!

I used to have skills. Getting old sucks.

What makes a man special, is how HE treats a lady.

But I could less about how one looks or performs in the sack nor how big his dick is.
I care about how that man I'm with at the moment treats me as a lady. That's the most important aspect about him that makes him attractive & special in my eyes and makes me want to see him again.

And I've been been blessed to of met some incredible men in this adult lifestyle, whom I consider friends! They don't judge folks, they don't take advantage of the ladies, they're not rude nor disrespectful.
They're true gentlemen that know what it means to treat women right!


As for getting right down to doing the lustful deed. Yes & no.
There's moments when your attraction to someone is so overwhelming that all you want to do is act on your lustful thoughts and chat later. Or act on your lustful thoughts while chatting......


As for someone expressing an interest about a lady's personal life.
I don't find that appealing at all. It's intrusive!!
It should be the individuals themselves who choose to share a bit about themselves IF they so desire. NOT because the other starts prying & asking questions.
Be mindful & respectful of each others private lives.



This adult lifestyle is and always will be YMMV.
Enjoy those you meet & treat each other with kindness. For it goes a long way and makes for some wonderful & enjoyable friendships.

I'm curious. What is it you ladies are referring to that makes a gent special? Is it his skills behind closed doors? Or is it the kindness, humor, generosity etc he demonstrates while visiting? Or both?

Also, do you like a man who just gets down to business? Or do you like to spend a few moments breaking the ice, chit-chatting about nothing in particular? Do you like it when the gent expresses an interest in you, like asking where you are from, do you like SA etc? Or do you consider those intrusive questions which are none of his business? Originally Posted by barneyrubble

Tara,
Anyone who views compliments as ass kissing are folks with no common sense.
Compliments are meant to be given. Sadly, not enough are. And sadly, many folks don't accept them at face value.

Girls... you two are not joking. I know some folks are looking at that rapturous post 'and saying "Oh, yeah, kiss some ass. Right. " Truth is that I don't give on rat's ass about having dough OR labels. Yes, money is nice but if that's why you hobby then you won't last long and you will be a miserable mofo in the end.

Yes, Ms. Kitti..I'll take that "feeling" over cash any day of the week baby!! Originally Posted by Tara Foxx