There is even information here for ladies to access in use.....
I know.... I know...... the idea that SOMEONE may have done what you have done in the past ans is willing to share with you seems like such a ludicrous idea right?
But there are a few that share if you just open your eyes!
There are a few guys as well that are willing to help..... There are countless threads where other ladies have asked what it is guys want in many subject areas.....
Seek out the information and read it with an open mind..... You DON'T EVEN HAVE TO COMMENT OR ADMIT IT MIGHT BE VALUABLE!
Here is a suggestion for example..... In your signature lines place the following comment....
I no longer see mid 20's hispanic/persian looking guys