Providers.. thoughts on scarred or disfigured guys...

*Not a ploy for sympathy, but FYI I was badly burned Sat morning by a greasefire mishap and just got out of the hospital last night. My left arm underside is fried, 2nd degree..likely gonna scar nasty but still 100% functional. Have mostly 1st degree on my face, mostly left side, ear, neck, cheek, forehead, nose and lips are blistered... hair and beard and eyebrow singed... . they say I should fully recover and I'm hardly one who'se ever been in a position to be vain. Hobbying is pretty far from my mind right now, but bored and home and not much else to do but play online and watch bad TV.
Anyway, ever seen anybody who was kinda messed up and self conscious about it? Were you afraid to ask or just ignored it? Etc...
I'm not into self pity so not wallowing in it, but facts are facts I look pretty nasty right now.. my wife is being wonderful caring for me, helping me shower with a plastic bag over my arm, changing bandages. My 7 year old daughter was pretty scared when she saw me but is being brave and optimistic.
Dunno why im posting this here.. thats what Facebook is for .. don't wanna be a downer.. outlook is good and Im pretty insanely tough and have recovered from a lot of weird injuries.

Definitely gonna be feeling pretty pent up though, can't really properly take matters into my own hands right now even.

i have scars and issues of my own... always used to get in my way, but learned to forget about it.
When I see others with scars, I tend to ask cause I would want them to ask me instead of just staring at me. but not to be rude ..
I dont feel any one should feel pitty on anyone. IMHO.
grease burns are awful and they are very painful...
if you want company hit me up babe...

licks and kisses to ya

Pagan Guy

Sorry to hear of your troubles. Hope your recovery is quick to come and complete.

Us ugly old guys whats a few scars?

With turkey frying season here, its a good time to reflect on being safe in these situations.

Best of luck to you paganguy.

Wow, hope you have a speedy recovery. Thankfully everything is still functional and all that will come out of it is some scarring.

Also, as long as Franklin, Jerferson, Grant, Lincoln and Washington were not burned in the fire, you should have no problems.

I'm sure you'll do just fine, with the ladies, not all about the physical aspects anyway. Don't know you, but based on your post you seem like a solid guy.

Keep moving forward one day at a time, best of luck to you and your family.

I really don't think that the ladies will have a problem seeing you so long as your penis or wallet were not set ablaze. Just keep a paper bag for your head handy and you should be fine.

All joking aside, I'm really sorry to hear about your injuries. I hope that you recover fully. Most of the ladies here are angels of mercy. By the way, what an awesome opportunity to role play sexy nurse.

JJ

thanks for the support all
no cash burned, but no cash being earned either
what really kills me is the lips being burned.. if my DATY skills are compromised.. be like breaking Mozarts fingers

keeping my sense of humor.. really feeling loved by friends and family lately anyway, and even perfect strangers.. and who perfectly stranger than the likes of you folks


mslove, wish you could make house calls with the spongebath supplies.. or tonguebath even....
mmm white stockings...

rock on dude, you will heal very quickly! give yourself a little time

Sorry to hear of what happened, glad that your still able to have a good sesnse of humor. That always helps in healing! I dot think that it personally having scares will hurt you in anyway with the ladies Get ell soon!

Sorry that happened to you and I hope you get well soon! As for your question, it would not bother me at all. I just never ask when someone is a little different. Doesn't make the session any less fun

Its whats inside the heart not the outside

I'm so very sorry to hear of your accident...and I know you must be in so much pain right now...Bless your heart! I hope you have family that can help...as I know burns need extra care to keep from getting infections. Everyone has their comfort level...but, most of us are humane and can look past the scars. I have several regular clients who have ailments...and I don't think I've ever treated them any different than anyone else.

PLEASE take good care...and pm me if you're bored and/or need to talk.

sorry that happen to you.Get well soon,theres always plastic surgery.

Its whats inside the heart not the outside Originally Posted by Makenzee_Ryder

Very true..Sorry to hear that happen to you get some rest here are some hugs and kisses for you