Enough Already!

Ok ya'll this is my first thread I have ever started in Coed. I am going to be fussy for a minute. Sorry
I am a very generous person with my face pics. In fact I am a very generous person period!!! I ,just as everyone does, have to be very discreet. I send a face pic after a screening to make sure you like how I look and to put your mind at ease that when I open the door I don't look like spiegal from Lord of the Rings.
Most all of you have been very respectful and have not asked for more pics incessantly.

HOWEVER, would someone please explain to me why some (maybe just one) men make an appointment get the pic cancel the appt. Ok I get it you didn't like me. No biggie. Then you ask about my location acting like you want another Appt to only leave me hanging.
Then you want to make an appt. and ask for more face pics because you deleted the others. What's the deal? Am I being a total bitch by saying "No more pics until you fulfill an apt request?
Have a happy horny day!!!!!

There are something that just can't be explained..

why should you feel like you should send a face pic? You are seeing him unseen! You have good reviews that's are he needs! Jmo!

I have to agree with that. If someone wants to probe it would be reasonable to describe yourself in general terms, but for him to ask for a photo is out of bounds in my opinion. Asking for (and getting) a photo is a very personal thing IMO and then for the client to not show up is just awful. I think you have every right to be pissed.

why should you feel like you should send a face pic? You are seeing him unseen! You have good reviews that's are he needs! Jmo! Originally Posted by bawdyboy

True haven't thought of that. I am a people pleaser lol guess I need to fix that in some areas. LOL Not in sessions that's one place I love to please!!!!

I have to agree with that. If someone wants to probe it would be reasonable to describe yourself in general terms, but for him to ask for a photo is out of bounds in my opinion. Asking for (and getting) a photo is a very personal thing IMO and then for the client to not show up is just awful. I think you have every right to be pissed. Originally Posted by Hatty242

Right you are Hatty!!! I don't like the idea of someone I don't know carrying my pic around in his phone is disturbing,

I am going to change my policy on face pics

I can understand wanting pics of a provider. I have yet to book with a provider that has not provided photos, and I doubt that I ever will. However, I don't have a problem with her blurring part of her face. The providers deserve privacy as much as the clients do.

If you've already sent one photo, you shouldn't feel badly about not doing it again. Some guys are just time wasters. Plus, anyone, provider or client, that schedules and doesn't make the appointment (without good reason) is an asshole. I've been NCNS a few times in the past, and it's a shitty thing to do to someone.

Fair enough and to each his own but personally I'm shocked that anyone would ask for a provider's photo when they don't know them and haven't seen them. That seems very high risk to me. How do they know he isn't some creepy photo collector, or LE wanting to fill a database, or some "moral" person wanting to post their picture on some freaked out "I'm better than you are" site. Personally I think that anyone asking for one isn't considerate of the risks they are putting the provider in and that makes them risky in and of itself. Plenty of room for disagreeing with my statement, I'm just stating my opinion.

why should you feel like you should send a face pic? You are seeing him unseen! You have good reviews that's are he needs! Jmo! Originally Posted by bawdyboy

While this is true, the donation negates that. Otherwise WTF are we doing?

As for the OP, if you sent one face pic, that's enough. Why does he need more? Plus, I've seen your face, it's pretty

It's not an inalienable right to receive a face picture from a provider, but most girls I know will do it simply to ensure that their 'look' aligns with the taste of the hobbyist. I do it... Even though I've been told I'm beautiful many times, taste is such a subjective thing!

The guy that you're speaking of sounds like a huge time-wasting jerk, Casey! Some people just want to text all day long and collect your pictures for their date with 'Rosie Palm' later on. Sorry to be crass. LOL!

If the request for text pictures is excessive, it usually means they are one of 'those' guys... Time-wasters with no follow through. Code 'em & forget 'em, My Precious!

why should you feel like you should send a face pic? You are seeing him unseen! You have good reviews that's are he needs! Jmo! Originally Posted by bawdyboy

I have to agree here.

Personally I do not send out pics prior to an appointment unless they are a regular of mine. In my experience potential new clients always ask for more and more pics but never come through on the appointment. I figure they're using them to jack off too. So for me that's a no no.

Now if they are a regular then I have no worries about that anyway. They know what I look like and a pic is just a little tease until they reach my incall or I reach them. Either way I know my clients and what they like and take pride in giving it to them.

SC I'm sorry you have had to deal with this. I hope that this doesn't continue to happen to you and I personally think that you should add this particular person on the DNS list as a time waster. It's your call on how you decide to handle it. But I personally wouldn't want to see someone after that with no reasonable explanation to not showing up. JMO

Thank you all for the input. I texted him prior to this thread and told him no more pics until you fulfill an appointment.

Thank you for the compliment UC!!!!

As always I have to learn the hard way!!! I sent my pic to a potential appointment the other day. He did not pass the screening process and I refused to see him. Now I am a c*nt and a bitch and he has a pic of my face!!!!

My face pic policy is no longer going to be as liberal. As far as that goes after a date with me you will NEVER forget what I look like!!!!

I have to agree here.

Personally I do not send out pics prior to an appointment unless they are a regular of mine. In my experience potential new clients always ask for more and more pics but never come through on the appointment. I figure they're using them to jack off too. So for me that's a no no.

Now if they are a regular then I have no worries about that anyway. They know what I look like and a pic is just a little tease until they reach my incall or I reach them. Either way I know my clients and what they like and take pride in giving it to them.

SC I'm sorry you have had to deal with this. I hope that this doesn't continue to happen to you and I personally think that you should add this particular person on the DNS list as a time waster. It's your call on how you decide to handle it. But I personally wouldn't want to see someone after that with no reasonable explanation to not showing up. JMO

Happy Hobbying Everyone.

Xo Xo
TK

Originally Posted by Trinity Kane

Not trying to ruffle any feathers but I have to say this because so many providers I have requested a pic from think this way. If I wanted to jerk off, I have unlimited access to any and every type of pornographic pics/vid I want right at my finger tips! I do not want your pic to rub one out.

The 1st criteria that I use to determine if I want to see a provider is if I am physically attracted to her. There have been numerous times where a provider will have blurry pics that show hardly anything but then I will see a review of that provider where the reviewer took pics and posted them and i will immediately contact that provider for a date! It's been said that guys are very visual when it comes to being stimulated, a lot more than women, please keep that in mind because most guys probably aren't willing to go in on a blind date.

With that being said, this guy Casey is talking about seems like a jerk.

I'm not from Ark, but I am a hobbyist so here's my take. The main thing for me is a physical attraction, I like private face pics, as has been stated, some blur their faces for security reasons, and I respect that. However, if I had to have a pic I would prefer a body shot. The main reason for that would be to make sure that I have that physical attraction to the provider. As I've gotten older, the body is what gets me going more than anything. I appreciate a pretty face, but the body is my thing. Luckily for me, I find women attractive from, and I base this on pics, the size of Ivanna Kumalott to SarahLynn hot. You don't have to be perfect to me, just in that range, but I have never pestered a provider for pics.