This is Goodbye...?

Dear Friends,

I want to thank you for welcoming me with open arms into your community. It is with a sad heart that I am hanging up my shoes.

What has happened is that my s.o. was not too happy with my extracurricular activities when he found out. I wish I can have both. Any ladies out there in a similar situation? Can I have both? Any advice or words of encouragement will be greatly appreciated.

XXOXX, Purrrsia

I am sorry to read that sweetie.

Be sure to check your PM's.

Best of luck for your new direction.

You will be missed.

SF

Purrrsia, So sorry to hear that has happened. How unfortunate that the SO had to find out, and too bad you think you must leave us. Somehow I wish we all could have it both ways, but…I guess life is not like that….at least for most of us.

Hope we see more of you….and if not….may life be really good to you. You are a kind and wonderful woman.

I would say that most S.O. guys would not be happy and finding out has ended more than a few relationships. I think there are ladies who "have both" and I don't know what their secret formula is. Probably has to be a very special kind of guy. And girl.

Good luck however you proceed.

BTDT Jealously is a big part of that, you just have to go with what you want.

Very sorry to hear of your troubles. Having an SO and being a provider must be difficult at best! I hope you two can work things out...if not, we'll be here waiting with open arms!! Good-luck to you my friend!

Some times it works and some times it doesnt.... i have had one or two so's that havbe been ok with it... and others that have freaked out a million times over... it helps to be honest from the start so its not a big secret .... wishing you all the best

It's hard to be honest from the start as we can't just go around telling every man we meet what we do!

Some times it works and some times it doesnt.... i have had one or two so's that havbe been ok with it... and others that have freaked out a million times over... it helps to be honest from the start so its not a big secret .... wishing you all the best Originally Posted by Sarah Owens

Purrsia, Talk to him. Ask him if he would be willing to see a lady to find out what is really is. Get him a lady that's not really into the whole gfe thing. He'll find out it's not about emotion. Maybe if he has a better understanding. Play down what you get out of it. Explain the money part of it.

Be sure to show him everyday that he has your emotion and heart. You can make this work, if he's willing to have an open mind. Otherwise he may always wonder when you're gone for a while. Or he's at work.

Whatever ultimately happens, we'll be hoping for the best.

Let him have some time to absorb his new discovery about you.

Sorry but WHAT THE HECK is an SO? :/

Significant Other.

S.O. means SHITTY OPPONENT! lol

Damn Purrsia I remember bringing you into this naughty world when you were just a lil virgen>>>

This is the main reason I stay SINGLE like kraft cheese.....When I had a Son of OHHHH he would bitch when I needed him to help me pay the light bill...He had me every day except for when Aunt Flow visited>>Damn I even cooked him a nice meal every freakin night... I stayed away from here and in turn lost alot of money>>>NEVER AGAIN unless I get a pre-paid credit card all in my name (Ms. Bibi Joy) will I ever do that again!!! (ANY VOLUNTEERS) lol

Girl I hope this guy pays you what your gonna lose staying away from this naughty lil world>>>I shall miss you doll you were always the sweetest to me!!

Damn guys thats another purring little kitty that strayed away>>

this is goodbye? um well every1 knows 99% of the providers never ever ever really totally 100% leave, i can count them on 1 hand in about 10 years. or retire etc
theres 1 that retired on a sunday i was seeing her, n i said ill see you wens she said ok that be fine lmao
BUT i wish the 1s that do best wishes!