A few years ago, I ponied up the cash to try one of the local clubs out as a single male. Big waste of time and money.
First, I couldn't get anyone to talk to me. And I'm not a troll. I'm reasonably good looking, probably one of the younger people there.
Second, of all the people there, there were maybe 2 or 3 that I'd have even been interested in. It's not like the club was packed with people, but the pickings were slim.
Originally Posted by jslice
as someone with a bit of experience, I can tell you the main problem with being a single male at a swing club.. to most, that's like going to a picnic and bringing nothing to the table, but munching out of everyone elses' basket. Going solo, as a male, is just another form of freeloading.. I'm not knocking you, just telling ya why you may get an attitude from that circle.. Extra males are sometimes an asset, but not in the clubs. Many clubs will allow you in IF you are with a couple.. then you would be expected to stay with that female.. not go cruise the herd.