BP Ads are 99% Shit

I am new to the hobby, so forgive me if this is a known thing. In part this is a warning and in part a rant.

That said, I've been looking through the BP ads for a few days now and have set up two different meets with providers, only to show up and the girl answering the door looked nothing like the girl in the ad. I have done my due dilligence previous to setting the meet... i.e. Google image search, check other sites like ECCIE, etc and both meets wound up being bogus anyway.

One girl last night I was really excited about and call to set up the meet and then did a Google image search and bam... ads in Dallas, NJ, Florida, Utah, .... all using the same images. So is this just to be expected? Like it is a known that the providers don't ever use real pics or am I right to be a little pissed off?

I mean almost all of the ads have something about "don't waste my time" and I am willing to bet that 50% say "real pics." Well guess what, if you don't want us to waste your fucking time don't waste ours. What is even more humorous is the ads that use Playboy models, celebs or porn star's pics.

Anyway, just really don't understand the continuation of this. I guess some dudes are so hard up for pussy that they will just but a nut on whatever, but is it too much to ask for real pics so we don't drive across town only to regret the time waste. What do we want? Real pics! When do we want them? Now!

Yep it is a know thing. Try to stick with eccie ladies. Doesn't guarantee that the pics will be spot on but a better chance. You are doing everything right it is just part of the journey and you will get better over time and instinct will be you guide. It is always fun though to find that hidden gem on Backpage but, they are generally far a few between unless you are in a major city like Dallas, Houston, Austin etc.

You have every right to be pissed off. I was actually going to post something like this myself just the other day regarding the Midessa BP ads. The majority of them the past couple of months have either been totally bogus ads, or just very low quality women. There's been no hidden gems in quite a while. Although, I do have my eye on one, she's local, does have a review and I may take the plunge and set something up for tomorrow afternoon.

backpage is for advanced players, bruh.

backpage is for advanced players, bruh. Originally Posted by john_deere

or clueless ones, bruh.

Mod...wrong forum...needs to be in the thank you captain obvious forum!

Mod...wrong forum...needs to be in the thank you captain obvious forum! Originally Posted by Phrasing

Lmfao! @ Captain Obvious forum!! Instant visual of the guy in the commercial LOL!

Come on, guys. The OP stated that he's new to the hobby. And, this is his first post.

Yes, he's stating something that's obvious to the more seasoned of us. But he's already light-years ahead of some dipshits that keep going back to BP time after time hoping for something magical.

Let's help the poor fuck find something worth his time.

awalker078

That`s a good 1st post. Can you post the links for the two BPers you attempted to see? We`d be interested in knowing.

While it has been stated BP is for anyone from clueless newbies to advanced players. There are a few things you can do to improve you rate of success with BP.

You can always request intel on the forum in the Requests and ISOs section. Sometimes you can get some good info both good and bad.

You can set a few rules for yourself. Such as insisting on a real pic before making an appointment unless you can verify her pics from some other source such as Facebook. Try to get some idea of their services. Some BPers are more willing to discuss services than others. I pass on the ones that will not discuss her services and rates to insure there are no upcharges or that her menu is limited and she does not provide services that I am interested in. Also the type of incall location comes into play in my secession.

I rarely make a quick decision when it comes to making an appointment with a BPer. They may think I am a time waster but ultimately its my hard earned money and I am the one making the donation. I want to feel comfortable about visiting a BP girl and I want to know she is worthy of my donation.

These can help but still there is no guarantee of success with BP providers even with those that have reviews or you may have seen before. Just ask john_deere he can testify to that.

yup. you gonna lose some in the bp game, but you may also find a diamond. it happens.

For those that weren't total dicks and felt the need to call me captain obvious (lol). The post was really more of a rant than anything else.

I looked back and didn't see the ads for the 2 I was going to meet up with, but if I see them post again I will be sure to share.

I have had an ad on BP for years...mainly because I don't get much biz off ECCIE...

I've been told numerous times they know my ad is real because it's full of GRIPING, lol

I always offer pics and rates, and they are always accepted.

I do not put a face pic on BP...I'd rather save that for texting or emailing after they contact me. I just don't want my face pic out there anymore than it has to be.

I have had bad eggs off BOTH sites, so I'm not saying if one is any safer than the other.

As with any site, YMMV...just use your TOP head and be careful!

xoxoxo...Sam

Sam I am surprised. I know there is a bad apple ocassionally but I figured they were few and far between and got ratted out pretty quickly on ECCIE. Is that not the case? Do you girls not share info in the Powder Room?

This has happened to us all. Some more then others. Thats one of the reasons i do this hobby is the excitement i get when i go see a new girl thats not reviewed because i never know what im gunna get. its a game and exciting for me, am i gunna get arrested, am i gunna get beat up by a pim, am i gunna get a fat bitch using fake pics or am i gunna find that diamond. I love bp and theres alot of bullshit that comes with it but thats the fun part for me. (and getting my dick sucked) But most ads are fake or bait and switch but also some girls put multiple ads with multiple pics to see if the same number calls all of them. thats how they see if the client is maybe a cop or just playing games etc. But like i said earlier we have all been there done that but its worth it when you find that diamond. enjoy the game have fun with it and just go along. oh and if you show up and you know your not gunna play with the girl that answers, just man up and walk away. ive done that a few times.