All of us hate having our time wasted right?
If you waste a providers time, do you think you will be able to see her?
Or as recourse to your action, do you think she'll just put you on a DNS list, and tell other providers about it?
Probably even that next provider you want to see when asked about a reference.
So what recourse do you have to having your time wasted by a provider?
Here on Eccie you can write a ncns thread here in coed.
Hardly the same outreaching effect though.
A lot of us use P411 because of it's ease in scheduling.
Many on P411 are unaware you have recourse for unprofessional behavior on that site.
If for instance you send a request for a Okay and it goes unanswered, you have recourse. You will have to make a second attempt, but if that too goes unanswered, you can report that to P411. If the provider doesn't supply an answer that pacifies the staff, their account will be suspended.
A even lesser known process is what recourse you have for a provider ncns'ing you if you have made the appointment via a P411 appointment request.
In this case you can report the ncns, provide a link to your accounting of the ncns, and ask it to be pinned to the providers showcase. The staff at the site will suspend their account for a period of time, and pin the account down in the reviews section. Then when provider is off suspension the ncns account will still be there for all the clients to make an informed decision.
It really is better if all, providers and clients alike, to simply behave as professionals.