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Someone please help me understand if a client has a problem with a provider or vice versa do u A:Say what you have to say by letting him or her know what the problem was B:Write A Review Give Your No Reccomedation "& move the hell on of course there are plenty of more fish in the sea why dwell on one" C: Nag Whine & Complain Every Chance You Get?? Just wondering because I seem to have this going on when ive apologize MANY MANY times about not sticking to a agreement that happened beyond 6months ago and every chance this gentleman gets he's still brings it up can a person really stay pissed that long?

I don't want to get in the middle of anything, but....

Sure, a person can stay pissed that long. Especially when promises & agreements are made and then broken. Most if not all providers bitch about how precious their time is. What about how precious our time is? How many provider showcases state "Don't waste my time, I won't waste yours". But how important is our, the monger's time? Is it not just as important? IMHO, I think so. We spend time preparing (at least I do) for a session just as well. Everyone's time is important. So, when plans are made, certain things are agreed upon and it doesn't happen, fuck yea I'm pissed. My time has now been wasted...and of course hobby $$ as well. How I've handled it?

Both A & B above with a little bit of C sprinkled in, but the majority of C was done in PM once my point was made and said what I had to say.

A: I PM'd the provider AFTER the session that I wasn't happy and respectfully stated the reasons why.

B: Wrote a No Review with a very detailed and honest ROS.

C: Responded to the fucking White Knights of the world in the Review thread and ML until I'd said my piece and felt enough was enough. I also responded to all of the PM's I received from other mongers honesty with the facts....which I may add stated they had a similar experience, but didn't want to do a No Review and face the wrath.

Point is??? Follow through with your agreement and honor it or don't bother at all. Pretty simple I'd say....

A quote from your showcase: I WILL OVERWHELM YOU & EXCEED YOUR EXPECTATIONS 100000%

Hey brit! I guess my question would be, are you 100% sure that this gentleman is still talking about you? Maybe what he has set up has fallen through with other providers as well and it seems to be a common topic?

What about option D) don't let it bother you since you aren't being called out.

I truthfully haven't seen anything negative about you and a situation you are describing being 6 months ago and you not going through with it.

Thanks guys for your response it was never a total yes on the request he asked me for BBBJCIM or course I said I dont do CIM buy was willing to try something new he came as he usually does well wen CIM was suppose to happen I jumped back but my thing Is this he was the VERY 1ST person to write my review and pointed out BRIT HAS A CUM PHOBIA so why make a big deal about something you knew could go 50/50 but thanks again guys xoxox Brit