And men WHAT do you do when you start to feel more than physically attracted to a provider?
When things get... Confusing. How do u go about it? Act upon it? Seperate yourself? Seperate ways?
Or go with the flow?

A loaded question, and a potentially very slippery slope. Sometimes the "click" between the two of you is the sound of two hearts connecting. Other times it's the sound of a trigger switch on an IED about to go off and cause major injuries to you and those around you.Do u think this hobby takes a toll or changes mentality toward rw relationships for either
If the emotional line does get crossed, the smartest thing to do is to never forget the circumstances under which you met and let that be the gauge by which everything that follows is conditioned. I personally don't see anything wrong with taking things from client/provider to friendship, but the line must be drawn early and not crossed.
This is another (big) reason why I prefer to see older, mature women. They've had more than their fill of SO's and relationships and have no problem with making that clear. Originally Posted by PDid
What do you do when things between you and a client become more than hobby related?Things are always going to be confusing, especially at such a young age. Just Here are a few things to consider...
And men WHAT do you do when you start to feel more than physically attracted to a provider?
When things get... Confusing. How do u go about it? Act upon it? Seperate yourself? Seperate ways?
Or go with the flow?
Originally Posted by Lilly2340
Do u think this hobby takes a toll or changes mentality toward rw relationships for either Originally Posted by Lilly2340We are all at least a little fucked up just by being here. We behave outside of society's norms. Take a look at yourself and figure out what makes you choose the decisions that you make. Then you will answer your own question.
We are all at least a little fucked up just by being here. We behave outside of society's norms. Take a look at yourself and figure out what makes you choose the decisions that you make. Then you will answer your own question.What about the guy who knows. What i do and he continues to try to be more than friends??
In my opinion, the hobby doesn't take a toll on real world relationships. Our past experiences influence us to make these decisions that have landed us here. We were already fucked up. This hobby just makes it easier for us to behave the way we do and we would treat our relationships the same way (hobby or not). Originally Posted by Simon Riley
What about the guy who knows. What i do and he continues to try to be more than friends??
And he has a good job and takes. Care of himself
And says he dont care what i do..
It seems wierd to me.. Like a undercover pimp... Originally Posted by Lilly2340
What about the guy who knows. What i do and he continues to try to be more than friends??Does this mean that you have no feelings, and have expressed this?
And he has a good job and takes. Care of himself
And says he dont care what i do..
It seems wierd to me.. Like a undercover pimp... Originally Posted by Lilly2340