Private access areas necessary for men? Or just a place for people without the balls to post it in public

Is it really necessary for guys to have the men's lounge or not?

Some prefer to be discreet and not post in public. Some men just want views from other men without a woman's perspective. Some may want to obtain info without the other party knowing. That's just a few.

But tell us really why you created this thread....

Just like the ROS, the ML's real purpose is to generate the site a profit. And there is nothing wrong with that.

Reality is, it is no secret that many have problems keeping things private that are said between two people BCD, so I find the idea that anything posted on an Internet forum is outside of an unintended party's ears/eyes, to be naive.

Having male-only areas adds to the sense of exclusivity that is very effective when selling a product, in this case, Premium Access.



Camille

Grey and camille nicely put.

Some bitch, some two faced (act nice in public and bad mouth in not so private), some make comments that don't want for general public.

yes not private as some would like, yes like ros way to make money. That's life.




But then coed used to be fun and people liked commenting and interacting.
Sometimes just on topics or pics, sometimes disagreements. Sometimes bashing providers or whispers ( sorry just had to say it).


Now providers and hobbyists rarely do. Take a guess why.

Maybe a forum just for bitching, complaining, whinning, and people that have no lives outside of here.

Maybe a forum just for bitching, complaining, whinning, and people that have no lives outside of here. Originally Posted by sms918

Your not bitching complaining or whining are you?

The entertainment from fucktards is priceless!!!

You post on the internet but you want to be discreet?

You can ignore a woman's opinion but it's not a wise idea in my opinion when it's about dealing with women.

Omg an escort getting upset because you ask about her or another escort on an escort information exchange board... If that's the case one or both of you is taking the illusion a little to far....

Why did I create this thread? Provoked some thoughtful responses didn't it....

Some prefer to be discreet and not post in public. Some men just want views from other men without a woman's perspective. Some may want to obtain info without the other party knowing. That's just a few.

But tell us really why you created this thread....
Originally Posted by Dr. Grey

You post on the internet but you want to be discreet?

You can ignore a woman's opinion but it's not a wise idea in my opinion when it's about dealing with women.

Why did I create this thread? Provoked some thoughtful responses didn't it.... Originally Posted by Chincho

There are some who don't post at all or only in those areas or use private tags. Some find it a discreet way to post. I personally don't care one way or another what people do, but I could see how some would not post at all if not for these features. Otherwise information would not be shared.



Not necessarily ignoring. Some subject matter is formulated by a lady and a gent is seeking men's advice. Sure, they can post in coed, but in the ML, they may not only receive responses from varying degrees of experience, but also those who only feel comfortable posting in those areas. Perhaps another ladies response is not necessary. It's like talking in the gym locker room, at the bar with a bunch of friends, well here...its the Men's Lounge.

Omg an escort getting upset because you ask about her or another escort on an escort information exchange board... If that's the case one or both of you is taking the illusion a little to far.... Originally Posted by Chincho

Hmmm...


As for that goes, do women need a private area also? Would it be a great idea to have their area in open forum? Well, same difference for the ML. They are what they are whether it's for revenue stream, a discreet way of posting, or a place where someone can feel more comfortable talking among men rather than women and vice versa. I personally think they are necessary avenues for information exchange that otherwise would not happen without them.

Dr. Grey you sound way to serious about a hobby

Dr. Grey you sound way to serious about a hobby Originally Posted by Chincho

Well, you asked...I'm giving you an answer...believe me, I have way more fun outside of this board.

Dr. Grey you sound way to serious about a hobby Originally Posted by Chincho

Why you such a prick ? Post some reviews or stop giving us a shit

I can understand about wanting to be discreet about the hobby because lets face it we are paying for sex period, so it's frowned upon really. Some do take it more serious than others, especially in reviews & some questionable NO's for not getting what they want or expect. Is their a need for the ML, maybe not, but as Camille said it's to generate profit & those curious to read the ROS of the reviews. Hell I kinda agree with Chincho, I would expect to be mocked at about having to pay to play all the time. This place isn't anything special & no different than BP or any other escort site. Just really seems like an excuse for a whore to raise her rates really.

I can only imagine what the women's private forum might contain as well, I bet it's 10x worse.

Honestly the women's area in SA is boring. Most of the time, all we do is post information about who NCNS'ed us or who wasted our time so the other ladies can make informed decisions on who they want to see. Oh, there is an occasional thread asking other providers for hobby information or to pass off a room we don't need anymore. The reason our area is less....volatile is at the end of the day providers are business owners.

The main difference between this site and BP seemed to be the expectations from the men. GFE on BP is a list of activities. GFE on here is a mindset, a conversation, a girl who is truly there with YOU. That takes way more out of a lady than a purely physical romp.

Not to be crass, but if I JUST sucked and fucked I would comfortably be able to handle three times the volume I do now.

The main difference between this site and BP seemed to be the expectations from the men. GFE on BP is a list of activities. GFE on here is a mindset, a conversation, a girl who is truly there with YOU. That takes way more out of a lady than a purely physical romp.

Not to be crass, but if I JUST sucked and fucked I would comfortably be able to handle three times the volume I do now. Originally Posted by SA Angel

That is a interesting observation on the difference between bp and eccie. Another reason that eccie is the better place to go to get laid.

Angel, while I understand what you are saying, I would argue that the main difference between here and BP is that due to reviews, I know which ladies here to see and who to stay away from. I wandered BP for a while before finding this site, but never made a call as I couldn't tell what was safe and what wasn't.

Oh, and another difference is the less drama with BP.

That is a interesting observation on the difference between bp and eccie. Another reason that eccie is the better place to go to get laid. Originally Posted by schertzguy

So prostitutes become better when they move to eccie ? What about the ones that work both?